😬 I used this because she blocked me on everything. When she broke up with me, she said she wanted to stay friends, but then blocked me everywhere out of nowhere. I was angry, so texted her using this ONCE, and she got a Cease and Desist through our university 🤦🏻♂️
Lmao damn
Yeah for me we just made a lot of mistakes but she gave up and blocked me, only texted her when necessary through the fake numbers.. it’s difficult though fighting against the urge but I want to respect her wishes. Not like anything positive will come out of me texting her barely two weeks since we spoke
I experience at the moment the same just with emails
It's horrible and you can't block it in advance
They know what they do sadly
I'm so sorry you are going through this! But stay strong it will be worth it and you can do this
If you wanna talk about it I'm here!
Sending much love <3
Thank you!! Im really not that sad. I think I grieved the relationship when I was still in it. These past 2 weeks, I haven’t cried as much as I would have if I was still with him. All I feel is relief!
Yay! Relief is the best! I'm so happy for you! He sounds just like my ex, extremely toxic and immature and basically used me until I tried to leave. Then it was the love bombing and texting from fake numbers and threatening to show up at my door.
I'm glad you got out and you're not looking back. Get your number changed ASAP so he can't contact you anymore. My ex really fucked with my head and I'm about to start therapy, partly because of that. I just don't feel like my old happy self anymore but I'm so thankful to be out of that relationship 🙏🏽
I will say something you may not like but I think conflicts arise because of two people not one person in any relationship. if he was getting that upset, I think there was something you probably unknowingly did to get him to react how he did. its likely a communication issue where you may have said something in a way you interpreted to be straight forward or honest and respectful but through his view of the world it was taken as an attack. case in point, telling him to talk to you like a person... its likely he was mistreating you with his words and how he was talking, but to him he also probably was reacting based on his own past experiences and then when he heard that...he probably didn't hear "hey can you talk to me like normal and be calm"...but "you're talking to me like an ahole and you need to talk normal to me"...it's all interpretations.
if someone doesn't go to therapy or want to, the next best thing to do is go yourself and then you'll be able to manage communication and feelings better and normally it rubs off on the other person also and they change.
Girl..... he had borderline personality disorder. He had a severe mental illness that changes the way he thinks about anything and everything. I did nothing to him. I NEVER had fights with anyone like I fought with him. I had quite a few serious boyfriends before that too.
I will say this is the LAST TIME I ever spill my guts out to someone on reddit. You basically told me it was my fault and if I went to therapy instead of him, we'd be fine. Truth is he needs medication to change the way his brain functions. He used to be on 2 or 3 meds and stopped taking them. I said the exact words "please talk to me like a person" in the most flat voice possible. He would not stop screaming at me. That is not my fucking fault and all I did was tell him I can't go to a show because I have to see my family. Seriously. Stop victim blaming because I need therapy because of this shit. I'm about 95% sure he gave me PTSD 🖕🏽
Wow just read them.
Sounds like you dated a giant man-baby.
You should be excited that you are gone from this guy. He sounds horrible. Now you'll know exactly want from the next guy: caring about Your feelings, motivated, protects you, doesn't try to make you feel worthless...
Im Excited for your next adventure!
Maybe take time to get some things straight with yourself before getting into your next one?
Self help and self love only make us stronger.
did you cry secretly on your own while in the relationship? how did you go about thinking about ending it and stuff when you two were together? when did you start having doubts? I am gonna go to your post history and hopefully you shared
edit just read your posts about him. gross. def leave and never go back
Mine used to do this, I would ignore and block and he comes back with a different number. He’s currently in jail for violating my restraining order. Ignore and move on life will be better
My only suggestion is to change your phone number and give it out to your mom and trusted friends with the specific instruction that they give it to no one.
Tag yourself, I’m “Can I please redeem this? Panarea bread 🥺🥺😢😢”
In all seriousness, he is displaying crazy behavior. I’m not trying to be dramatic, but you’ve made it clear that you’re not interested in getting back together as you haven’t replied to him. A normal person would take this signal and leave that person alone, even if it hurt. If it doesn’t stop, I would seriously consider a restraining order
Actually, it’s so sad watching this. How someone in a blink of an eye can disrespect you so much in order to lose you, only to appear back again, showing they really did “respected” you enough. I’m looking at that screenshot and I just don’t know how I’d feel if it was my ex. So sorry you have to endure this.
I agree. This is over the line, into illegality. A court order of no contract is more than warranted. Your local domestic abuse center will have advocates who can walk you though the process.
That is narcissistic behavior from his part & very immature to not respect your decision of wanting a breakup. My ex told me she was going to change her number after I reached out once 6 weeks into no contact lol. Sent me a clear message not to reach out again & that she was happy with someone new that she’d known for 2 weeks.
Once we broke up and tried to be friends, and it didn’t work out for numerous reasons (we were both at fault) I also used a fake number in a moment of loneliness and weakness and messed around a little bit, revealing it was me…
It was very low of me and I regretted it a lot, she had already blocked me everywhere by then
We tries talking again like two weeks later but we still unfortunately had issues so she blocked me again.
Had to use a fake number to talk about important things that would come up..
My point being, the first time I did it, for no legit purpose, I was super lonely, desperate and pathetic.. she may be going through the same, it won’t justify it but I thought I’d share how I felt when I did the same (Although I didn’t keep making new numbers and kept spamming her, only after she kept blocking it and something else came up)
Good luck!
I’m so sorry that happened to you… it sucks and it can be scary at times. My ex made multiple numbers and threatened me telling me he’d kill himself if I left him and ignored… challenge accepted and he never did it… just ignore the messages and pretend they don’t exist. He will get the hint
Damnn. I feal sorry for the guy because I know how it hurt to be dumped by one you love. I got blocked after trying to call ex gf three times after breakup but I send apology email and stay away from her. This is too much. Don't know what caused the end of relationship but try talking to him and telling him that he need to move forward with his life. Maby call his parents.
I got blinded day after talking about engagement rings (she started the topic). I tried to call her because I had so many questions, not even trying to get back together. Is your situation similar?
My stuff is at her place and she would not answer the phone. (not some clothes, but 4-5k $ worth of technology) I don't know, I think I will need to call the cops to get my stuff back from girl that broke me into million pieces.
I have tried to tell him that I don’t blame him for anything and that we’re just not good for each other (I was trying to be nice, if you check my profile you can see why it ended.) He just won’t stop. Our situation is kinda similar. I wanted to get married and so did he, but he made me feel like a pos and I decided that this is not the man I want to marry. I was blinded by love for 2 years too long. I feel bad for him too, but this is what’s best for me and him. Im sorry you had to go through that, I have definitely been in his position before because he’s put me there, but it’s normally just 1 long text and then I stop because he says he’s done. Never anything like this. I was planning on getting my number changed.
I went through reasons you ended it and dauuumn girl. Why did you put up with that? How did I get dumped and there are girls who put up with this behavior? I cooked for my ex, cleaned apartment, made her baths, massaged her, motivated her to study and workout, read book to her, took her to dates, fix stuff, created personalized gifts and gadgets... And I get dumped 🥲
Keep strong and change number. If needed, file restrainig order.
Jesus! He's about as bad as my ex. When I dumped my ex, he tried pulling the "I'm in a bad place emotionally" card and that he needed me to help him organize his shit. I refused to answer until he poked at one of my insecurities and I went nuclear. He then had the audacity to create new numbers for weeks just to call or text me, who which I blocked. It's been a month since the last call and I think he's finally gotten the hint to move on and fuck off.
Truth be told, it’s best to go Ghost for now.
Like maybe disable your account if he’s contacting you on social medias.
Since you’re changing your number, you might as well turn off your phone off for now to keep the distractions out.
Just use a landline phone to contact your friends or family. (Unless he knows that too which would be problematic…)
You said you’re away from home yes? I wonder how long that is…. If you managed to stay quiet for a whole month, that would be a breath of fresh air (silence!)
If you got a computer, you might as well just browse the internet (not social media) to pass through time.
Nothing beats a good old Netflix / YouTube binge.
Lawd have mercy. I just read some of your past posts…? Girl, this guys a mess! Please don’t let him wear you down! He has spent your entire relationship trying to manipulate you into believing he’s better than you and can get anybody he wants. He’s abusive bc he’s tried to lower your self esteem so you wld be dependent on him. Now look at him. He was lucky to have you and you’d be a fool to entertain this and believe he’s changed
Is he a Toronto mans? I suggest changing your number. If he somehow continues to harass you, please report this to the police and/or your support circle. Take screenshots and keep a record in case
Hm yes I see. Looks like 2 broken people trying to function as if they arent broken. I understand the toxicity can be addicting at times ( in a weird way) but you took the step to better yourself. He will tire himself out eventually and leave you alone. He seems to want to have a relationship but not do anything that honors it and from your posts you seem a bit insecure and in need of constant validation and reassurance. When you are like that, even the best people will seem sketchy to you because your thoughts betray you. Work on yourself and I hope your ex works on his behavior too. Be strong
Yes I was! I have never been like that in any other relationship before him and have never had any dislike for my looks either. I think the toxicity of the relationship just really started to mess with my head. It is not his fault that I was so insecure and felt so bad about myself during the relationship, it’s just the fact that we were never good for each other and I took that into account as “I’m not good enough for him” which started my downward spiral into a deeper depression. I don’t blame him for anything, we’re just too different, not good for each other. I hope he can see that soon.
At least spell Panera bread right & wow. Def file a restraining order, move, and change your number. People be so desperate. They only “care” when you move on
It’s going to be more difficult if all of those are fake numbers. Many people in my life resort to fakes because they know they’ll get away with it :( hopefully that won’t be the case with you
Right?! It was my favorite restaurant, he’d never go with me😂He always took me to the restaurant his ex always talked about that he never went to until they broke up!
“Kissing and making up would hit the spot right about now” yuck, what is it with guys like this being so entitled to other peoples (usually women’s) bodies. Am I wrong??? Do guys go through this too with their girlfriends???
No one believes I blocked 51+ phone numbers from a guy. This happened to me too but later learned he was in adderall. Like addicted to it. This guy has some serious issues. You can go to police if it gets too much or threats on your life.. Just don’t rapping
Don’t go to the police btw. Don’t ruin his life because he doesn’t know how to process this. Not yet at least, change your number and inform your family to start. I’m not condoning this behavior or justifying it but definitely don’t involve the police. A restraining order can be very impactful to a person’s future growth and as long as he hasn’t threatened you or shown up around you then there’s really no reason to fear him.
His behavior is childish not dangerous.
He’s had 3 restraining orders against him when he was 18, im not going to because I don’t want anymore drama, but he definitely knows this is wrong. He showed up to my house the other day and dropped my stuff off when I wasn’t home. And last time we broke up, he did threaten to come to my house! But my mom told him she would shoot him so he didn’t!
Well then. Idk then. I had this type of behavior when I was like 17-18 but nothing threatening and nothing was ever done about it. I will say after she changed her number I never tried to contact her again though. I suppose there’s different degrees to dealing with heart break childishly,
no feeling for the OP.
She fuckers her friends and her brothers friends in her history and has her ex slap the kitty ? EHHH? Tinder life... is scary. Shit. RED FLAG IS OP. lol
I think she is the narcissist checking out that past. But this is a habit you need to work on.
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I don’t know if it’s really that kinky, but I got ate out by 2 of my best friends at the same time! The night before that, I fucked my friends brother and he walked into the room and watched while I sucked his fingers. This one’s kinda funny, not really kinky, but I told an ex of mine to slap my 🐱, I meant with his weewee, but he just slapped my 🐱 as hard as he could with his hand.
The issue is this: Go to his parents and address the problem with them. He might have parenting issues or past dating trauma.
"The apple don't fall far from the tree."
But NOW, with the way the internet changed people since 1990's.
"The cellphone app store is to close to the mental ward section."
Freedom of speech or expression is toxic, and you are now seeing that he's living proof.
He is expressing himself to communicate back with you.
You don't need the police involved unless you know he has a firearm or did some weird shit in his home like collect weapons and shit.
What you need is his "MOMMA" to step in and say "I DON'T EVER REMEMBER RAISING A LOSER AS SON."
That will wake him up.
If you really cared for him and want him to move on.
Get the parents involved. Father will kick his ass for you.
They will not. His mom is obsessed with him and never cared for me too much. Anytime I was around, she would give me dirty looks. I got her a Christmas gift and she told me she thought it was tacky to give gifts on Christmas, haven’t talked to her since! His dad also just would not.
My past is not a red flag, it may very well be to you and that’s fine, but in general I don’t think it is. We were all single and it was consensual, and I was young, years ago, way before my most recent relationship. And my relationship with my ex, why are my sexual endeavors any of your business or anyone else’s? How is that related to anything here? I’ve done a couple “freaky” things so I’m the narcissist? I’m sorry, but I don’t agree. And I really don’t appreciate you writing this on a post like this, please read the room. It’s very strange to put my sexual past on something like this, the subreddit I posted those comments on were fitting, this is not. I really don’t believe I am a bad person, especially not because of a couple sexual experiences.
If he’s been making fake numbers to reach you, the dude has some issues. Continue no contact.
Yes! Everytime. Im supposed to be getting my number changed soon.
And text your mom back, Jesus
I wasn’t up!😂
“I am now”
🤣🤣
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As someone who has done this, not at all.. You got apps for this where you can pay like 10 a month and you can change ur number every day
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For me, I used an app called TextFree
😬 I used this because she blocked me on everything. When she broke up with me, she said she wanted to stay friends, but then blocked me everywhere out of nowhere. I was angry, so texted her using this ONCE, and she got a Cease and Desist through our university 🤦🏻♂️
Lmao damn Yeah for me we just made a lot of mistakes but she gave up and blocked me, only texted her when necessary through the fake numbers.. it’s difficult though fighting against the urge but I want to respect her wishes. Not like anything positive will come out of me texting her barely two weeks since we spoke
Respond to momma
I was thinking the same thing lmao
This. Mama might have been actually hearing from him too, when I think about it. Ugh
Don't fall fer it puddin!
This gentleman is what not to do. I’m guessing you guys are relatively young.
20 and 21!
Jesus Christ people are insane. I thought I was a crazy dude until I see the behavior on this sub.
I experience at the moment the same just with emails It's horrible and you can't block it in advance They know what they do sadly I'm so sorry you are going through this! But stay strong it will be worth it and you can do this If you wanna talk about it I'm here! Sending much love <3
Thank you!! Im really not that sad. I think I grieved the relationship when I was still in it. These past 2 weeks, I haven’t cried as much as I would have if I was still with him. All I feel is relief!
Yay! Relief is the best! I'm so happy for you! He sounds just like my ex, extremely toxic and immature and basically used me until I tried to leave. Then it was the love bombing and texting from fake numbers and threatening to show up at my door. I'm glad you got out and you're not looking back. Get your number changed ASAP so he can't contact you anymore. My ex really fucked with my head and I'm about to start therapy, partly because of that. I just don't feel like my old happy self anymore but I'm so thankful to be out of that relationship 🙏🏽
how did they use you? how did they mess with your head?
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I will say something you may not like but I think conflicts arise because of two people not one person in any relationship. if he was getting that upset, I think there was something you probably unknowingly did to get him to react how he did. its likely a communication issue where you may have said something in a way you interpreted to be straight forward or honest and respectful but through his view of the world it was taken as an attack. case in point, telling him to talk to you like a person... its likely he was mistreating you with his words and how he was talking, but to him he also probably was reacting based on his own past experiences and then when he heard that...he probably didn't hear "hey can you talk to me like normal and be calm"...but "you're talking to me like an ahole and you need to talk normal to me"...it's all interpretations. if someone doesn't go to therapy or want to, the next best thing to do is go yourself and then you'll be able to manage communication and feelings better and normally it rubs off on the other person also and they change.
Girl..... he had borderline personality disorder. He had a severe mental illness that changes the way he thinks about anything and everything. I did nothing to him. I NEVER had fights with anyone like I fought with him. I had quite a few serious boyfriends before that too. I will say this is the LAST TIME I ever spill my guts out to someone on reddit. You basically told me it was my fault and if I went to therapy instead of him, we'd be fine. Truth is he needs medication to change the way his brain functions. He used to be on 2 or 3 meds and stopped taking them. I said the exact words "please talk to me like a person" in the most flat voice possible. He would not stop screaming at me. That is not my fucking fault and all I did was tell him I can't go to a show because I have to see my family. Seriously. Stop victim blaming because I need therapy because of this shit. I'm about 95% sure he gave me PTSD 🖕🏽
That's ana amazing step you made you can be so proud It really shows how strong you are!!
Thank you!!!!♥️
Why did you break up?
This screenshot is all I need to know
Lol right?
Lots of reasons. I posted all of them on my profile if you want to see, but the relationship was just very toxic altogether
Wow just read them. Sounds like you dated a giant man-baby. You should be excited that you are gone from this guy. He sounds horrible. Now you'll know exactly want from the next guy: caring about Your feelings, motivated, protects you, doesn't try to make you feel worthless... Im Excited for your next adventure! Maybe take time to get some things straight with yourself before getting into your next one? Self help and self love only make us stronger.
did you cry secretly on your own while in the relationship? how did you go about thinking about ending it and stuff when you two were together? when did you start having doubts? I am gonna go to your post history and hopefully you shared edit just read your posts about him. gross. def leave and never go back
Sounds like me 😅 I’m never getting her back
Mine used to do this, I would ignore and block and he comes back with a different number. He’s currently in jail for violating my restraining order. Ignore and move on life will be better
Just don’t forget he calls you “dry ass pussy” 🤡
Jesus... and I thought I acted desperate after my breakup at first, turns out I didn't even come close lol
My only suggestion is to change your phone number and give it out to your mom and trusted friends with the specific instruction that they give it to no one.
Tag yourself, I’m “Can I please redeem this? Panarea bread 🥺🥺😢😢” In all seriousness, he is displaying crazy behavior. I’m not trying to be dramatic, but you’ve made it clear that you’re not interested in getting back together as you haven’t replied to him. A normal person would take this signal and leave that person alone, even if it hurt. If it doesn’t stop, I would seriously consider a restraining order
Actually, it’s so sad watching this. How someone in a blink of an eye can disrespect you so much in order to lose you, only to appear back again, showing they really did “respected” you enough. I’m looking at that screenshot and I just don’t know how I’d feel if it was my ex. So sorry you have to endure this.
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Came here to say the same. A restraining order is absolutely proportionate to the situation
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It’s straight up stalking behavior
I agree. This is over the line, into illegality. A court order of no contract is more than warranted. Your local domestic abuse center will have advocates who can walk you though the process.
No idea why the breakup , but this smells of love bombing , which is a ploy of someone caught cheating. Whatever it's for , don't fall for it .
That is narcissistic behavior from his part & very immature to not respect your decision of wanting a breakup. My ex told me she was going to change her number after I reached out once 6 weeks into no contact lol. Sent me a clear message not to reach out again & that she was happy with someone new that she’d known for 2 weeks.
Guess blocking is not an option 😑
This is scary… wow
just turn unknown callers off and filter unknown senders on messages
Done
They needs SERIOUS help ASAP. I’m really sorry you’re going through this.
That’s a stalker
He has no options
Block block block block …… restraining order
Lol I’m so glad I know no contact
Once we broke up and tried to be friends, and it didn’t work out for numerous reasons (we were both at fault) I also used a fake number in a moment of loneliness and weakness and messed around a little bit, revealing it was me… It was very low of me and I regretted it a lot, she had already blocked me everywhere by then We tries talking again like two weeks later but we still unfortunately had issues so she blocked me again. Had to use a fake number to talk about important things that would come up.. My point being, the first time I did it, for no legit purpose, I was super lonely, desperate and pathetic.. she may be going through the same, it won’t justify it but I thought I’d share how I felt when I did the same (Although I didn’t keep making new numbers and kept spamming her, only after she kept blocking it and something else came up) Good luck!
How many fucking phones does dude have?
It's an app that masks your phone number
Damn. How many exes you got?? /s (OBVIOUS /s) Stay strong, OP.
Panarea bread 🥺🥺😢😢
He sent a Blue October song- that’s reason enough to never ever respond
I feel for him though
Bash him as much as you want, but I can feel for that guy.
I know, me too kinda. I just feel bad.
This is similar to the makings of a stalker. It’s still happening to me sadly.
LMFAOOOO nah this was the story of my lite
Life*
Call the cops
I’m so sorry that happened to you… it sucks and it can be scary at times. My ex made multiple numbers and threatened me telling me he’d kill himself if I left him and ignored… challenge accepted and he never did it… just ignore the messages and pretend they don’t exist. He will get the hint
why did you break up with him
What love spell did you do on this man ?
I was a juror on a murder trial, the txts from ex boyfriend to the victim looked just like this... Don't meet up with him
Damnn. I feal sorry for the guy because I know how it hurt to be dumped by one you love. I got blocked after trying to call ex gf three times after breakup but I send apology email and stay away from her. This is too much. Don't know what caused the end of relationship but try talking to him and telling him that he need to move forward with his life. Maby call his parents. I got blinded day after talking about engagement rings (she started the topic). I tried to call her because I had so many questions, not even trying to get back together. Is your situation similar? My stuff is at her place and she would not answer the phone. (not some clothes, but 4-5k $ worth of technology) I don't know, I think I will need to call the cops to get my stuff back from girl that broke me into million pieces.
I have tried to tell him that I don’t blame him for anything and that we’re just not good for each other (I was trying to be nice, if you check my profile you can see why it ended.) He just won’t stop. Our situation is kinda similar. I wanted to get married and so did he, but he made me feel like a pos and I decided that this is not the man I want to marry. I was blinded by love for 2 years too long. I feel bad for him too, but this is what’s best for me and him. Im sorry you had to go through that, I have definitely been in his position before because he’s put me there, but it’s normally just 1 long text and then I stop because he says he’s done. Never anything like this. I was planning on getting my number changed.
I went through reasons you ended it and dauuumn girl. Why did you put up with that? How did I get dumped and there are girls who put up with this behavior? I cooked for my ex, cleaned apartment, made her baths, massaged her, motivated her to study and workout, read book to her, took her to dates, fix stuff, created personalized gifts and gadgets... And I get dumped 🥲 Keep strong and change number. If needed, file restrainig order.
Jesus! He's about as bad as my ex. When I dumped my ex, he tried pulling the "I'm in a bad place emotionally" card and that he needed me to help him organize his shit. I refused to answer until he poked at one of my insecurities and I went nuclear. He then had the audacity to create new numbers for weeks just to call or text me, who which I blocked. It's been a month since the last call and I think he's finally gotten the hint to move on and fuck off.
You should go to the police.
This is insane lmao
Wow at least I'm not that bad
Truth be told, it’s best to go Ghost for now. Like maybe disable your account if he’s contacting you on social medias. Since you’re changing your number, you might as well turn off your phone off for now to keep the distractions out. Just use a landline phone to contact your friends or family. (Unless he knows that too which would be problematic…) You said you’re away from home yes? I wonder how long that is…. If you managed to stay quiet for a whole month, that would be a breath of fresh air (silence!) If you got a computer, you might as well just browse the internet (not social media) to pass through time. Nothing beats a good old Netflix / YouTube binge.
LOOKS FAMILIAR
Jesus Christ, this is insane. Stay far away and be safe!
This is psychotic. I hope that you’re able to see that and get others involved.0
Wow that’s some serious persistence but it’s for the best not to reply.
Lawd have mercy. I just read some of your past posts…? Girl, this guys a mess! Please don’t let him wear you down! He has spent your entire relationship trying to manipulate you into believing he’s better than you and can get anybody he wants. He’s abusive bc he’s tried to lower your self esteem so you wld be dependent on him. Now look at him. He was lucky to have you and you’d be a fool to entertain this and believe he’s changed
Is he a Toronto mans? I suggest changing your number. If he somehow continues to harass you, please report this to the police and/or your support circle. Take screenshots and keep a record in case
What lead to the breakup? You left or him?
I left for many reasons, they’re on my profile if you’re really curious, but long story short we just weren’t good for each other.
Hm yes I see. Looks like 2 broken people trying to function as if they arent broken. I understand the toxicity can be addicting at times ( in a weird way) but you took the step to better yourself. He will tire himself out eventually and leave you alone. He seems to want to have a relationship but not do anything that honors it and from your posts you seem a bit insecure and in need of constant validation and reassurance. When you are like that, even the best people will seem sketchy to you because your thoughts betray you. Work on yourself and I hope your ex works on his behavior too. Be strong
Yes I was! I have never been like that in any other relationship before him and have never had any dislike for my looks either. I think the toxicity of the relationship just really started to mess with my head. It is not his fault that I was so insecure and felt so bad about myself during the relationship, it’s just the fact that we were never good for each other and I took that into account as “I’m not good enough for him” which started my downward spiral into a deeper depression. I don’t blame him for anything, we’re just too different, not good for each other. I hope he can see that soon.
Omg this is insanity. Please change your number and do not communicate with this person.
That’s crazy. It reminds me of someone I know. The 423 area code sketches me out more.
At least spell Panera bread right & wow. Def file a restraining order, move, and change your number. People be so desperate. They only “care” when you move on
It’s going to be more difficult if all of those are fake numbers. Many people in my life resort to fakes because they know they’ll get away with it :( hopefully that won’t be the case with you
Wtf
HOW does he have so many numbers
Goals
Wow just wow
Personally I'd be running... Far.
Damn I think you have to respond. How could you resist Panarea?
Right?! It was my favorite restaurant, he’d never go with me😂He always took me to the restaurant his ex always talked about that he never went to until they broke up!
What a bitch. I know what it’s like to feel Like that but his first mistake was putting it out there like that. Tell bro to use note pad. Fr fr
Omg 😳
“Kissing and making up would hit the spot right about now” yuck, what is it with guys like this being so entitled to other peoples (usually women’s) bodies. Am I wrong??? Do guys go through this too with their girlfriends???
No one believes I blocked 51+ phone numbers from a guy. This happened to me too but later learned he was in adderall. Like addicted to it. This guy has some serious issues. You can go to police if it gets too much or threats on your life.. Just don’t rapping
Holy shit OP. If he doesn’t stop I think you’re gonna up end needing to go to the police to report this.
Psychotic
Stay the fuck away gal.
He is HURT
Narcissistic and possessive
Don’t go to the police btw. Don’t ruin his life because he doesn’t know how to process this. Not yet at least, change your number and inform your family to start. I’m not condoning this behavior or justifying it but definitely don’t involve the police. A restraining order can be very impactful to a person’s future growth and as long as he hasn’t threatened you or shown up around you then there’s really no reason to fear him. His behavior is childish not dangerous.
He’s had 3 restraining orders against him when he was 18, im not going to because I don’t want anymore drama, but he definitely knows this is wrong. He showed up to my house the other day and dropped my stuff off when I wasn’t home. And last time we broke up, he did threaten to come to my house! But my mom told him she would shoot him so he didn’t!
Well then. Idk then. I had this type of behavior when I was like 17-18 but nothing threatening and nothing was ever done about it. I will say after she changed her number I never tried to contact her again though. I suppose there’s different degrees to dealing with heart break childishly,
no feeling for the OP. She fuckers her friends and her brothers friends in her history and has her ex slap the kitty ? EHHH? Tinder life... is scary. Shit. RED FLAG IS OP. lol I think she is the narcissist checking out that past. But this is a habit you need to work on. << i dont know how to do the quote bubble >> but i like to do my phy degree seeing the past before I comment on these relationships >> Difficult_Tree_3497 · 1 mo. ago I don’t know if it’s really that kinky, but I got ate out by 2 of my best friends at the same time! The night before that, I fucked my friends brother and he walked into the room and watched while I sucked his fingers. This one’s kinda funny, not really kinky, but I told an ex of mine to slap my 🐱, I meant with his weewee, but he just slapped my 🐱 as hard as he could with his hand.
Everyone has their own opinions. I can see if some people could think that. That was years ago also, way before we were dating. Way before.
The issue is this: Go to his parents and address the problem with them. He might have parenting issues or past dating trauma. "The apple don't fall far from the tree." But NOW, with the way the internet changed people since 1990's. "The cellphone app store is to close to the mental ward section." Freedom of speech or expression is toxic, and you are now seeing that he's living proof. He is expressing himself to communicate back with you. You don't need the police involved unless you know he has a firearm or did some weird shit in his home like collect weapons and shit. What you need is his "MOMMA" to step in and say "I DON'T EVER REMEMBER RAISING A LOSER AS SON." That will wake him up. If you really cared for him and want him to move on. Get the parents involved. Father will kick his ass for you.
They will not. His mom is obsessed with him and never cared for me too much. Anytime I was around, she would give me dirty looks. I got her a Christmas gift and she told me she thought it was tacky to give gifts on Christmas, haven’t talked to her since! His dad also just would not.
My past is not a red flag, it may very well be to you and that’s fine, but in general I don’t think it is. We were all single and it was consensual, and I was young, years ago, way before my most recent relationship. And my relationship with my ex, why are my sexual endeavors any of your business or anyone else’s? How is that related to anything here? I’ve done a couple “freaky” things so I’m the narcissist? I’m sorry, but I don’t agree. And I really don’t appreciate you writing this on a post like this, please read the room. It’s very strange to put my sexual past on something like this, the subreddit I posted those comments on were fitting, this is not. I really don’t believe I am a bad person, especially not because of a couple sexual experiences.