That's tough man, there's no denying that. I get how you feel and how much pain you're going through right now.
I think one of the first things you can do while you grieve is find acceptance. I used to tell myself all the time "I respect her decision". And I really did. It caused me a lot of pain, but I had to respect it. Ask yourself: what is the alternative? There is none that doesn't go into insanity, and you're not an insane person. Respect her decision and you'll also respect yourself.
For now just give it time man. Feel all the feelings, cry, yell, talk to people and express your feelings. You're gonna make it through but it'll take time. Respect and acceptance, for her and yourself. Good luck my man, I can already tell you're gonna come out strong when the time is right.
I know this post is a year old, but I can relate to it since I'm going through the same thing. The only difference was, it was too late. She already got a new boyfriend when I asked to fix things. It felt relieved but at the same time, pain. But it is what it is, I guess.
don't be sorry for sharing this with detail. i hope things have gotten better for you. these situations hurt so much because the better outcome feels so near but we can't change somebody else's feelings. take care of yourself.
That's tough man, there's no denying that. I get how you feel and how much pain you're going through right now. I think one of the first things you can do while you grieve is find acceptance. I used to tell myself all the time "I respect her decision". And I really did. It caused me a lot of pain, but I had to respect it. Ask yourself: what is the alternative? There is none that doesn't go into insanity, and you're not an insane person. Respect her decision and you'll also respect yourself. For now just give it time man. Feel all the feelings, cry, yell, talk to people and express your feelings. You're gonna make it through but it'll take time. Respect and acceptance, for her and yourself. Good luck my man, I can already tell you're gonna come out strong when the time is right.
I am in your condition since 3 months https://www.kylebenson.net/toxic-relationship-2/ This helped :)
That article basically defined the last four months of the relationship lol
Same man 😊 79 days since breakup and the way she brokeup still haunts me everyday let alone the pain of Breakup
I know this post is a year old, but I can relate to it since I'm going through the same thing. The only difference was, it was too late. She already got a new boyfriend when I asked to fix things. It felt relieved but at the same time, pain. But it is what it is, I guess.
How long since the breakup?
It’s been just about a month
update man ?
How’re you doing now?
don't be sorry for sharing this with detail. i hope things have gotten better for you. these situations hurt so much because the better outcome feels so near but we can't change somebody else's feelings. take care of yourself.