As a gentile I know "my folks were long islanders" amounts of Yiddish but verklempt is one of my favorite words! It means to be choked up or misty-eyed. Yiddish has all manner of excellent words.
ALSO THANK YOU it's very rare that I catch my cakeday so it's legitimately touching for you to say so, kinda feels like my actual birthday ❤️
My kids have bonus parents like you and they make love and family bigger. One of my greatest honors in life is hearing my kids talk lovingly about them.
You’re doing a great job. You CHOSE your stepdaughter when she was already fully formed. How fucking special is that?! 💚
She’s amazing! I wish I had a relationship with her bio mom like your kiddos step mom has with you. Unfortunately her biomom is toxic and sees her as nothing but a baby doll and accessory to be formed the way she wants her to be :(
Then you are that much more of home to her 🥹 My parents never appreciated my authenticity. I fiercely value those who do. I see them as well as they see me, and that is true for the two of you as well.
She is so lucky to have you. My mom and my step mom are both a bit nuts (putting it mildly), but my step mom is so loving. She has made up for all the love that I was looking for from my mom . At 32 years old I still know that I could go to her for anything and she would wrap me in her arms and give me the love and support I need.
That will likely fade yano. My partner had a stepmom growing up and since he was early 20s he finally dropped the “mum2” and first name stuff, she’s just mum now. His mum and dad had him 50/50 so they’re both “mum” equally to him. I love it.
I am a stepmom as well as having 2 bio kids of my own (half siblings of my stepchildren). I love all of them equally. However, there is just something extra special about the mothers day gifts I receive from my stepkids because they chose to accept me as a mother figure (their mothers are fully in the picture) and it brings me to tears almost every time. I love them so much, and it feels amazing that they love me as well. Congrats on being an awesome mother!
This is beautiful! 😭💕
Also, I have a similar stuffed animals situation but mine is a big bear and a little bear. My son (8) calls them "us bears".. because they're us 🥰
Some great advice I got early in my marriage was from a boss of mine. He said in his opinion, "step" means "less then". And he only knows how to be a dad, not less then a dad and only wanted a daughter, not less than a daughter. So that's what he tried to be. The best dad he could.
It's a strange thing to be a step parent. You can love them like they are your flesh and blood but the reality is, you aren't. And when the birth parent is still in the picture it gets even stranger. It becomes a really fine line you have to walk. Apparently you are doing it really well. Good job 😁
We use bonus and step because that’s what I am to her and that’s okay. We will only ever be what she is ready for. ❤️ doesn’t make us less than, just different than her birth parents
I’m a bonus mom as well and prefer the term bonus over step. It feels kind of special to me to be like “I know your family doesn’t look like you expected, but you get a whole extra parent to love you that a lot of kids don’t get!”
Yes! Foxes and cows are my favorite and she constantly picks up fox or cow themed gifts for me and has even started adapting to them. Apparently I was also supposed to have cow earrings in this but they somehow ended up in her room instead 😂
Perhaps you need to get a matching set of cow earrings ;)
You should go on a trip to the Netherlands with her! I went as a kid and there was cow themed stuff everywhere, and I was delighted! I got cow print clogs! I developed a liking for the moos. I'm older now and the love has gone, but I still love that memory.
You are the big cow and I’m the little cow!! Oh boy that’s the most adorable thing I’ve ever heard!! Awww! You must be the most amazing bonus mom for her!!
Thank you ❤️ and I’m sure your kiddo feels the same about you even if she hasn’t been great at showing it in the last few years. Teens are hard, give her time ❤️
I’m also a stepmom and I totally get how great this feels! I have a little note my stepdaughter gave me one year for Mother’s Day in my nightstand. It was a sweet, simple little note and it meant so much. It’s not always an easy role, but moments like these make it so worth it!
I’m honestly very fortunate. We are good friends. It is not a typical situation, I know, but she is a kind, mature adult who was never threatened by me. And she knows that I love her kids, and she appreciates the role I have in their lives.
She was the one that wanted the divorce, not because he did anything terrible, but they had just grown apart and she wasn’t happy. I think she had a lot of guilt over leaving (she wasn’t cheating, although just try to convince my MIL of that). So when we met, she was genuinely happy for him, and really warm to me from the start.
Even her family welcomed me—I mean, it sounds like a sitcom! My husband is a doctor, and I am very immune compromised. So, when he had his first week of inpatient service at the beginning of Covid, we decided to have me go somewhere to not risk exposure since we didn’t know what things would be like. His ex-in laws had me come to Maine and stay in their camp for 2 weeks! They live a mile away, and her dad came to check on me every day, and they had me over a few times for dinner. I know the whole thing is extremely unusual. So I definitely feel very lucky. And of course it’s the best possible scenario for the kids.
How about you? The fact that your stepdaughter clearly loves you makes me think that at the very least, her mom isn’t trying to alienate her against you. But hopefully you have an amicable relationship too. I wish all situations could be like that.
Her mom is horrible. She is trying to take her completely away from us because she got remarried and wants my spouse replaced. She ignores her unless there’s something in it for her :-(
I’m really sorry. That’s the worst possible situation. What a selfish thing to do, and such terrible parenting. I’ve seen in these situations though that the parent who tries to alienate the other parent often doesn’t “win.” Children are very capable of seeing it for what it is, and they become resentful toward the parent for trying to sabotage their relationship with the other parent. The irony is that when they become adults and it’s their choice, they may not want much of a relationship with the parent. As a social worker, I’ve seen this play out and it’s sad and just so unfair to the kid. I hope that your stepdaughter continues to surprise you for many Mother’s Days to come.
Step parents are more impactful then you might realize. My mom dated someone who I called my step dad from when I was 11 years old until early 20s and I still speak to him and tell stories about what we did together. My dad was also present at the time. I love/loved both of them so differently but both so strongly. Xo
I gave the same cow to my grandma when she was in the hospital a couple of weeks ago! She yelled at the staff for putting it on the floor. When I visited her last the cow was on the bed with her.
We met in 1985. From the beginning she has been a supportive friend, a mom when mine wasn’t available, and a mediator between my dad and I during the rough teen years. My father died over 17 years ago and she is still as important to me as my mother is.
I was 15 when we met, and very rebellious- out of anger at my parents. My bonus mom took it really slow, didn’t try to be my mom or put her in a bad light, showed deep respect for my dad’s and my relationship and didn’t take time away from my time with him. She treated me with respect, stood up for me, and let me decide when and how our relationship would progress. I wish you the best- if you always put the children’s needs first, even when their own parents don’t, you will be loved and appreciated.
I'm almost 34 years old, and my dad has been married to my bonus mom since I was 4. I never saw her as a "bonus" mom until I was almost an adult (which I truly regret, bc tbh she has always been fucking AMAZING to me) so you're absolutely doing shit right, if your step kiddos *already* see you as that. Keep doing what you're doing OP ❤️
Absolutely! It seems like you're a wonderful bonus parent, to some wonderful kids. And I can't wait to see how your guys' relationship blossom as time goes on. Keep being a badass OP❤️
As a girl who has a horrible step mom and birth dad and an absolutely AMAZING stepdad and birth mom, it makes a world of difference when someone who has no obligation tries so hard to be a good step parent. It can be a very rewarding relationship and my stepdad has helped me learn that there are good men in this world and my dad being a shitty person wasn’t my fault. Thank you to all step parents that just simply try!💕🫶🏼
How incredibly sweet (love the funny “big cow little cow” stuffed animal)! Shows what an amazing, thoughtful, and loving person you are, as well as your stepdaughter. Hugs all around! 👍😘🐮🐮
You're a great parent, and giving that child what she needs.
I myself have a stepdad that I refer to as dad...because although he's not my Father, he was/is my dad for 90% of my life. He taught me how to be a man, right from wrong, how to treat women (he'd buy my mom flowers without needing a reason), and how to conduct myself with others. The man taught me how to fix anything with my hands and my mind. He came in to our lives when we all needed him, and we're so grateful he chose us.
Good job, OP - you're a good parent and the love shows. ❤️
He taught me how to shave, how to be kind and respectful, as well as how to deal with bullies...and he cheered me up when my heart got broke, or if I got in a tussle with those bullies. He treats my mom like the jewel that she is, and he's her manly mountain man - they're disgustingly adorable 😂
This child loves you. She absolutely sees you as a mother figure. The big cow little cow is something one of my kids would give to me. Congratulations on becoming a mom to this little girl. I have a feeling you will have an awesome relationship 💗
Such a sweet daughter you have. It's about time you remove that mental thought that she is a "Step daughter" & start saying "My daughter".
It's a life long bond, just saying..... No place for the word "step"to exists there.
Such a sweet gift expression of her love and gratefulness🤗 from a sweet child. 😘☺️God bless you both. Amazing gifts ♥️💖
I’m 43 and I still talk to my dad’s 2nd wife. I maintained a relationship even after they divorced in my late teens. She is a really cool lady and took me on cool trips. But she never tried to replace my mom, just was a really trusted adult. I’m an only child so it meant a lot to me.
Step parents can be just as important as biological parents. You don’t need to be related by blood to be a great parent. Happy Mother’s Day to you
So cute, you make her feel loved and safe. Great job!!
The cow plushie reminded me of a Christmas gift my aunt gave me .. She gave me a Christmas box, inside it was a mama kangaroo plushie with a baby in her pouch. She told me "when I saw it I thought of you and -daughter's name- and how special it is to have her, etc etc." she said some more nice things I can't remember. (I had my daughter earlier that year, she knew the pregnancy and birth were difficult).
It was one of the most thoughtful gifts I've ever received. It meant a lot to me that she really saw me and the relationship I have with my daughter... It's on my bedside table.
My daughter has only us two parents, but she's luckey enough to have 5 awsome grandparents. Her bonus grandpa is just as much family as her real two are. Just more people to love her 🥰
Your part of your step daughters family and she's showing you that clearly.
This is so sweet and I’m sorry but I’m a little 🍃 right now so I looked through your profile and you seem like such a great, kind, caring bonus mom! She’s lucky to have you!
I came in late (she was 7 when we met, she’ll be 10 this year) and she has always been kind. But I do hope I am helping foster what is already there ❤️
Soooooooo sweet I could almost cry. I bet you are doing a great job as a step mom. She must feel safe around you. I would have been a sobbing mess if I got those teddies and that explanation. Too cute ❤️
To already have achieved this level of back and forth between you two must mean that you've been a wonderful parental figure for her, keep doing what you're doing, you're an awesome stepmom :)
You make her feel safe and loved is what that says to me! ❤️❤️
I might cry 🥹🥹🥹
I’m a step-mom, too, altho my kids are young adults. I might cry too 😁
Mine thinks she’s a young adult. She’ll be 10 in September and those preteens have started early 😂
She’s an eleventeen yr old
Very much so!
This is my kid. Holy smokes she flips that switch back and forth.
The fact she still sees herself cuddling you at that age is huge. My kids kinda stopped that by that age
She doesn’t cuddle too much but sometimes when she is upset or cold she will
I got a glimpse of what preteens are going to be like for me when my daughters were 3…. It… it’s gonna be rough yalll.
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Yes 🥹. I’ve been in her life 2 years now and I hope our relationship continues to blossom ❤️
This is so beautiful ❤️ bless your family!
It's not even my kid - literally I am not a parent in any way - AND YET HERE I AM GETTING ALL VERKLEMPT ANYWAY, WHAT IS HAPPENING
Love! Happy cake day! ❤️❤️❤️
omg thank you, holy shit you're so nice. No wonder that kid loves you. Have a VERY happy Mother's Day, internet stranger ❤️
Aw thank you! I am not always nice but I try to always be kind :). I hope you have a great day as well!!
Love is the real quantum force 😉
Happy Cake Day!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Keep verklempting. (I have no idea what that is I'm going by context but I'll go look it up in a bit)
As a gentile I know "my folks were long islanders" amounts of Yiddish but verklempt is one of my favorite words! It means to be choked up or misty-eyed. Yiddish has all manner of excellent words. ALSO THANK YOU it's very rare that I catch my cakeday so it's legitimately touching for you to say so, kinda feels like my actual birthday ❤️
Happy cake day :) a Reddit birthday!
Oh gosh thank you!!!
My kids have bonus parents like you and they make love and family bigger. One of my greatest honors in life is hearing my kids talk lovingly about them. You’re doing a great job. You CHOSE your stepdaughter when she was already fully formed. How fucking special is that?! 💚
She’s amazing! I wish I had a relationship with her bio mom like your kiddos step mom has with you. Unfortunately her biomom is toxic and sees her as nothing but a baby doll and accessory to be formed the way she wants her to be :(
Then you are that much more of home to her 🥹 My parents never appreciated my authenticity. I fiercely value those who do. I see them as well as they see me, and that is true for the two of you as well.
I value your authenticity ❤️
💚💫 Thank you.
She is so lucky to have you. My mom and my step mom are both a bit nuts (putting it mildly), but my step mom is so loving. She has made up for all the love that I was looking for from my mom . At 32 years old I still know that I could go to her for anything and she would wrap me in her arms and give me the love and support I need.
I'm a step-mom (and an adoptive mom), and this is awesome! I love the "bonus mom" quote :) Keep doing what you're doing.
It’s hard sometimes! But so worth it ❤️ and so do I! It’s so hard to find bonus parent stuff ☹️
How old is she?
She’s 9, 10 in September
That will likely fade yano. My partner had a stepmom growing up and since he was early 20s he finally dropped the “mum2” and first name stuff, she’s just mum now. His mum and dad had him 50/50 so they’re both “mum” equally to him. I love it.
I hope so, but even if it never does, I’m incredibly thankful to be in her life in any shape or form she allows me to be
You're her moom. Aaaaw.
So cute, you must be very special to her!
I try my best to be ❤️
I am a stepmom as well as having 2 bio kids of my own (half siblings of my stepchildren). I love all of them equally. However, there is just something extra special about the mothers day gifts I receive from my stepkids because they chose to accept me as a mother figure (their mothers are fully in the picture) and it brings me to tears almost every time. I love them so much, and it feels amazing that they love me as well. Congrats on being an awesome mother!
Thank you! And you as well! She’s my only kiddo so it is extra special that she sees me this way!
This is beautiful! 😭💕 Also, I have a similar stuffed animals situation but mine is a big bear and a little bear. My son (8) calls them "us bears".. because they're us 🥰
That’s so cute! ❤️❤️
Some great advice I got early in my marriage was from a boss of mine. He said in his opinion, "step" means "less then". And he only knows how to be a dad, not less then a dad and only wanted a daughter, not less than a daughter. So that's what he tried to be. The best dad he could. It's a strange thing to be a step parent. You can love them like they are your flesh and blood but the reality is, you aren't. And when the birth parent is still in the picture it gets even stranger. It becomes a really fine line you have to walk. Apparently you are doing it really well. Good job 😁
We use bonus and step because that’s what I am to her and that’s okay. We will only ever be what she is ready for. ❤️ doesn’t make us less than, just different than her birth parents
I’m a bonus mom as well and prefer the term bonus over step. It feels kind of special to me to be like “I know your family doesn’t look like you expected, but you get a whole extra parent to love you that a lot of kids don’t get!”
How nice to see a good relationship. Keep up the good work
I try my best ❤️
Be the best cow you could ever be. Mooo!
Always!
You had me scared I missed mothers day lol, I checked the calendar so fast
Had to do it now because her birth mom has her for Mother’s Day
Fwiw, Step Mother’s Day is the Sunday after Mother’s Day. That’s what we are celebrating, so that both their mom and I get our own day 😊
Best bonus mom is the cutest thing I’ve heard in a long time
Aw, Bonus Mom - love that :D
The cows 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Do you like cows, by any chance? Or does the little one? This is so cute either way <3 I hope you get years of happy lil' cow gifts.
I love cows. My bathroom is themed with cows
Then that just adds a whole new level of cute! She knows you love them moos.
Yes! Foxes and cows are my favorite and she constantly picks up fox or cow themed gifts for me and has even started adapting to them. Apparently I was also supposed to have cow earrings in this but they somehow ended up in her room instead 😂
Perhaps you need to get a matching set of cow earrings ;) You should go on a trip to the Netherlands with her! I went as a kid and there was cow themed stuff everywhere, and I was delighted! I got cow print clogs! I developed a liking for the moos. I'm older now and the love has gone, but I still love that memory.
You are the big cow and I’m the little cow!! Oh boy that’s the most adorable thing I’ve ever heard!! Awww! You must be the most amazing bonus mom for her!!
I try! ❤️❤️❤️
51 year old father of an 18 year old daughter sitting hear bawling. Not sure why this hit so hard but you must be doing something right, good job mum.
Thank you ❤️ and I’m sure your kiddo feels the same about you even if she hasn’t been great at showing it in the last few years. Teens are hard, give her time ❤️
I’m also a stepmom and I totally get how great this feels! I have a little note my stepdaughter gave me one year for Mother’s Day in my nightstand. It was a sweet, simple little note and it meant so much. It’s not always an easy role, but moments like these make it so worth it!
How’s your relationship with biomom?
I’m honestly very fortunate. We are good friends. It is not a typical situation, I know, but she is a kind, mature adult who was never threatened by me. And she knows that I love her kids, and she appreciates the role I have in their lives. She was the one that wanted the divorce, not because he did anything terrible, but they had just grown apart and she wasn’t happy. I think she had a lot of guilt over leaving (she wasn’t cheating, although just try to convince my MIL of that). So when we met, she was genuinely happy for him, and really warm to me from the start. Even her family welcomed me—I mean, it sounds like a sitcom! My husband is a doctor, and I am very immune compromised. So, when he had his first week of inpatient service at the beginning of Covid, we decided to have me go somewhere to not risk exposure since we didn’t know what things would be like. His ex-in laws had me come to Maine and stay in their camp for 2 weeks! They live a mile away, and her dad came to check on me every day, and they had me over a few times for dinner. I know the whole thing is extremely unusual. So I definitely feel very lucky. And of course it’s the best possible scenario for the kids. How about you? The fact that your stepdaughter clearly loves you makes me think that at the very least, her mom isn’t trying to alienate her against you. But hopefully you have an amicable relationship too. I wish all situations could be like that.
Her mom is horrible. She is trying to take her completely away from us because she got remarried and wants my spouse replaced. She ignores her unless there’s something in it for her :-(
I’m really sorry. That’s the worst possible situation. What a selfish thing to do, and such terrible parenting. I’ve seen in these situations though that the parent who tries to alienate the other parent often doesn’t “win.” Children are very capable of seeing it for what it is, and they become resentful toward the parent for trying to sabotage their relationship with the other parent. The irony is that when they become adults and it’s their choice, they may not want much of a relationship with the parent. As a social worker, I’ve seen this play out and it’s sad and just so unfair to the kid. I hope that your stepdaughter continues to surprise you for many Mother’s Days to come.
I can feel how warm of a person you are just based on those gifts. You're doing amazing!
Thank you 🥺🥺🥺
Oh the little cows and what she said is so precious! 🥲💕
*best bonus mom* I would be bawling. Love to see love like this thanks for sharing.
This is adorable, but I won’t lie and say you didn’t give me a heart attack thinking Mother’s Day was tomorrow and I’d forgotten lol
Step parents are more impactful then you might realize. My mom dated someone who I called my step dad from when I was 11 years old until early 20s and I still speak to him and tell stories about what we did together. My dad was also present at the time. I love/loved both of them so differently but both so strongly. Xo
Life is hard. Harder than ever now. Kids need as many good moms as they can get. Thank you for being good to her.
Arrrrr Best Bonus Mom, so wonderful to sincerely be loved 🥰 made me smile 😊
I try to be ❤️❤️ thank you!
You’re doing a wonderful job.
This is so sweet! You must be an amazing bonus mum!
I try my best!
This is adorable 😭❤️
this is actually sweet af - when theres a chance, tell her that from all redditors.
I will ❤️
Such a MOO-ving gift!
This is the sweetest!! Love it - from one Mama cow to another!!
Why are you cutting onions in this thread? You just got the best gift that any parent could ever get. Congratulations mom. Keep on keeping on
Thank you!
I HAVE THE SAME ONE WE CALL IT PULLED PORK FAMILY FOR SOME REASON
😂😂😂 that is hilarious
I must be PMSing cause this made me tear up
I am too! 😂 I got emotional too lol
I gave the same cow to my grandma when she was in the hospital a couple of weeks ago! She yelled at the staff for putting it on the floor. When I visited her last the cow was on the bed with her.
Aww 🥰
This is my favorite thing I’ve read on reddit today. ❤️
Thank you ❤️❤️
I have a bonus mom too! The best gift my dad ever gave me.
I hope my kiddo feels the same one day ❤️
We met in 1985. From the beginning she has been a supportive friend, a mom when mine wasn’t available, and a mediator between my dad and I during the rough teen years. My father died over 17 years ago and she is still as important to me as my mother is.
That’s amazing 🥹 I truly hope that will be us. I’m scared that we will finally get to the mom stage then the teens will hit and everything will change
I was 15 when we met, and very rebellious- out of anger at my parents. My bonus mom took it really slow, didn’t try to be my mom or put her in a bad light, showed deep respect for my dad’s and my relationship and didn’t take time away from my time with him. She treated me with respect, stood up for me, and let me decide when and how our relationship would progress. I wish you the best- if you always put the children’s needs first, even when their own parents don’t, you will be loved and appreciated.
I always try my best to be on our side and we Always go at her pace. Thank you for the advice ❤️
This is so sweet and wholesome 💗
I'm almost 34 years old, and my dad has been married to my bonus mom since I was 4. I never saw her as a "bonus" mom until I was almost an adult (which I truly regret, bc tbh she has always been fucking AMAZING to me) so you're absolutely doing shit right, if your step kiddos *already* see you as that. Keep doing what you're doing OP ❤️
Thank you! And thank you for the hope ❤️
Absolutely! It seems like you're a wonderful bonus parent, to some wonderful kids. And I can't wait to see how your guys' relationship blossom as time goes on. Keep being a badass OP❤️
As a girl who has a horrible step mom and birth dad and an absolutely AMAZING stepdad and birth mom, it makes a world of difference when someone who has no obligation tries so hard to be a good step parent. It can be a very rewarding relationship and my stepdad has helped me learn that there are good men in this world and my dad being a shitty person wasn’t my fault. Thank you to all step parents that just simply try!💕🫶🏼
From the bottom of my icy cold heart I just have to tell you, fuck you for making me cry. 🥹👍♥️
A good cry is good for the soul and icy heart ❤️
How incredibly sweet (love the funny “big cow little cow” stuffed animal)! Shows what an amazing, thoughtful, and loving person you are, as well as your stepdaughter. Hugs all around! 👍😘🐮🐮
Damn Reddit onion ninjas 😭😭😭 That's beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
🧅🥷 thank you 🥰
🥹 this is sooo adorable. Well done big cow 🐮 🩷
Thank you little cow ❤️
This is incredibly thoughtful and she must have put some time into finding these items for you! What a beautiful gift!
She is 9 so probably had SOME help but the cows were all her ❤️
Awwwww thats wholesome! 😊
You're a great parent, and giving that child what she needs. I myself have a stepdad that I refer to as dad...because although he's not my Father, he was/is my dad for 90% of my life. He taught me how to be a man, right from wrong, how to treat women (he'd buy my mom flowers without needing a reason), and how to conduct myself with others. The man taught me how to fix anything with my hands and my mind. He came in to our lives when we all needed him, and we're so grateful he chose us. Good job, OP - you're a good parent and the love shows. ❤️
I hope one day my kiddo posts something like this about me. I’m so glad you have that kind of role model ❤️❤️
He taught me how to shave, how to be kind and respectful, as well as how to deal with bullies...and he cheered me up when my heart got broke, or if I got in a tussle with those bullies. He treats my mom like the jewel that she is, and he's her manly mountain man - they're disgustingly adorable 😂
She thinks of you everyday, and she loves you. That’s what this says to me. Oh my, this is adorable and so sweet! 🥹💕
This child loves you. She absolutely sees you as a mother figure. The big cow little cow is something one of my kids would give to me. Congratulations on becoming a mom to this little girl. I have a feeling you will have an awesome relationship 💗
Adorable 🥺🥺
Oh you’re a good mommy 🥹🥹🥹
Looks like you’re doing a great job.
Aw, you must be a great mom. Happy Mother's Day.
I try ❤️ and thank you!
That’s awesome.
She is ❤️
This is awesome. Good job OP! And kudos to your kiddo.
Thank you! She’s amazing ❤️
Oh, that even made me teary 💛 that's so sweet. You're both very lucky 😊
I’m the lucky one ❤️
This is so sweet!!! 🥰🥰🥰
These we thoughtful gifts 🥰
They were ❤️
This is so sweet. Cherish her. She is lucky to have a caring stepmom who cares for her the same 😊.
So cute you rule
Thanks for ruining my makeup. 🥹🥹😭😭😭😭☺️
Sorry!! 😬 bet you still look beautiful tho!!
Its ok, totally worth it! Thanks big cow. 😊🥲
You’re welcome little cow 🥰
She did really good!
She did ❤️
Oh that is precious!! 🥰
Such a sweet daughter you have. It's about time you remove that mental thought that she is a "Step daughter" & start saying "My daughter". It's a life long bond, just saying..... No place for the word "step"to exists there. Such a sweet gift expression of her love and gratefulness🤗 from a sweet child. 😘☺️God bless you both. Amazing gifts ♥️💖
That's so sweet ❤️ Best bonus mom 🥹
Aw!💖💖💖
Mooo-cho sweet!!
I’m 43 and I still talk to my dad’s 2nd wife. I maintained a relationship even after they divorced in my late teens. She is a really cool lady and took me on cool trips. But she never tried to replace my mom, just was a really trusted adult. I’m an only child so it meant a lot to me. Step parents can be just as important as biological parents. You don’t need to be related by blood to be a great parent. Happy Mother’s Day to you
Thank you! And thank you for the hope that gives me!
Awesome
So cute, you make her feel loved and safe. Great job!! The cow plushie reminded me of a Christmas gift my aunt gave me .. She gave me a Christmas box, inside it was a mama kangaroo plushie with a baby in her pouch. She told me "when I saw it I thought of you and -daughter's name- and how special it is to have her, etc etc." she said some more nice things I can't remember. (I had my daughter earlier that year, she knew the pregnancy and birth were difficult). It was one of the most thoughtful gifts I've ever received. It meant a lot to me that she really saw me and the relationship I have with my daughter... It's on my bedside table.
Precious 🥺
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I love a theme queen when it comes to gifts!
Oww so cute🥺
❤️😭So sweet❣️
You must be a great mom, and she must be a great daughter as well!❤️🫶
She is!
You are obviously a very good Stepmom.
I try very hard ❤️
So sweet
My daughter has only us two parents, but she's luckey enough to have 5 awsome grandparents. Her bonus grandpa is just as much family as her real two are. Just more people to love her 🥰 Your part of your step daughters family and she's showing you that clearly.
best bonus mom😭
Damn onions 🥹
This adorable. But hell, Mother’s Day jump scares always worry me that I forgot
Two out of three calling you a cow - you sure about this? /s, just in case Captain Obvious isn't in.
Eh I’m a big girl. Isn’t the first time, won’t be the last time 🤣😜
Cute as 💕
This is so sweet and I’m sorry but I’m a little 🍃 right now so I looked through your profile and you seem like such a great, kind, caring bonus mom! She’s lucky to have you!
Thank you! 🥺🥺
A gift is a wonderful thing because it creates love between a mother and her daughter
Absolutely adorable and lovely. You are so blessed and it seems she feels the same way 💕💕💕
Awww you must be doing a wonderful job raising a very thoughtful daughter!
I came in late (she was 7 when we met, she’ll be 10 this year) and she has always been kind. But I do hope I am helping foster what is already there ❤️
Oh my god that's so cute 😭😭😭 so happy for you!
that's so sweet
im sure you’re an amazing mum🫶great job!
Awwww
What a lovely kid ☺️
Soooooooo sweet I could almost cry. I bet you are doing a great job as a step mom. She must feel safe around you. I would have been a sobbing mess if I got those teddies and that explanation. Too cute ❤️
I was 🥺
"Bonus mom" I'm crying thats so sweet
I would sob. 🥲 That is so sweet
That's precious ❤
Oh, I just love this for all of you. ❤️
I would literally cry nonstop, the mom and baby plushies are too cute! I love the milk can and sunflower as well. You have the sweetest daughter
I do ❤️ she’s perfect
Is she an adult? Could she be telling you she's about to make you a Grandma??
She’s 9…
Sorry, didn't see that.....mea culpa!
Good job, step momming is not easy. You must be doing it right.
Thank you, I try my best!!
Best bonus mom 🥺 that is so cute
To already have achieved this level of back and forth between you two must mean that you've been a wonderful parental figure for her, keep doing what you're doing, you're an awesome stepmom :)
Thank you 🥺 I try so hard to be a good parent to her because her mom isn’t and she so deserves it