You can hire a professional, or you can post an add for someone to video you.
Lots of voyeurs would be willing to do it for free. Make sure you use YOUR memory cards.
As far as using your own memory card, unless you're a skilled video editor, it's not going to look good if they just give you the card. You'd have to let them take it home and do some basic color correction at least, otherwise it might be unwatchable (even with a pro camera). So I don't see how you get this done without the risk of them having a copy, if that's a concern for you. I agree the idea is hot, though!
Honestly, having someone watch you and record doesn't sound like easing your way in. Go to a LS club and watch others and maybe do some public play or wear revealing clothing.
I’ve been that single male. So I know. The key is knowing what your job is. When I help couples out, I’m there to enjoy the show but not participate. My payment was just being there and I don’t need to pressure them for extras
Thanks! Yeah I thought about just setting our phones up but I kind of want those real angles that the phone can’t get alone lol I’ll look into it. Hopefully it’s not too expensive
Boudoir photographers DO NOT do this type of videos or photos, or at least a reputable one won’t do it. They are not into any type of pornographic content. They are meant to empower women and men by showing off their clients sexy side not shoot any sexual activity.
I would suggest setting up a tripod with your phone or a small camera.
You're generalizing a bit. i know some professional boudoir artists who would do it. it really depends on the individual. Heck, I know a wedding photographer who has done "honeymoon" stills for couples
I've always wanted to do this, always been a video buff. But I have no video catalog to show them, and even if i did I would not want to invade anyone else's privacy. That's the horn of the dilemma--figuring out how professional or how amateur you would be comfortable with. The minute you say 'show me what you've done' you're going to exclude 90 percent of the people who would be into doing it.
I am pretty sure there will be people standing in line to video! I have become more of a voyeur over the years love to video! Even have the ability to shoot night vision! Just make trust and be sure to control the situation they to video only and no keeping the content! There pleasure should be watching you two pleasure each other! I had a buddy of mine film me and wife a few years back! It was a blast!
We talked with a couple of friends to do it but we actually never got anyone to film us. We just do it ourselves, it's not that hard and since I guess it's not for professional production you should be able to do something appealing to you easily. We do it all the time. It even adds stuff to do and since we're filming we take some time to dress up and get groomed a bit for it.
We sometimes use a tripod and most of the time we just use our phones and it turns out ok. We love to edit and watch it later, also share it with whoever might find it interesting.
We started by asking one of my friends. She was a bit reluctant at first, but eventually came around. We always spent a lot of time together and even went to nude beaches with her so we didn’t think it would be a big deal to ask. You do have to be careful because some folks will get offended.
Have a look here on Reddit at r/swingersr4r
You can describe exactly what you want, and you'll likely get lots of guys who'd do it for free. Be sure to include your location, since r4r is worldwide.
You can hire a professional, or you can post an add for someone to video you. Lots of voyeurs would be willing to do it for free. Make sure you use YOUR memory cards.
Oh yeah we’ll definitely be using our equipment!
As far as using your own memory card, unless you're a skilled video editor, it's not going to look good if they just give you the card. You'd have to let them take it home and do some basic color correction at least, otherwise it might be unwatchable (even with a pro camera). So I don't see how you get this done without the risk of them having a copy, if that's a concern for you. I agree the idea is hot, though!
Might not want to use your equipment, some people have really nice gear. But they can still use your memory card.
Honestly, having someone watch you and record doesn't sound like easing your way in. Go to a LS club and watch others and maybe do some public play or wear revealing clothing.
Interesting. I appreciate that perspective. You might be right
Typically it’s best to find a single guy that you can be friend or single woman and once you trust them to see if they’ll do it for free
I’m thinking the same
I’ve been that single male. So I know. The key is knowing what your job is. When I help couples out, I’m there to enjoy the show but not participate. My payment was just being there and I don’t need to pressure them for extras
Google "boudoir video" or "boudoir photography" in your area. You will find pros who will do it for a fee. Else, use both of your phones on a tripod
Thanks! Yeah I thought about just setting our phones up but I kind of want those real angles that the phone can’t get alone lol I’ll look into it. Hopefully it’s not too expensive
Boudoir photographers DO NOT do this type of videos or photos, or at least a reputable one won’t do it. They are not into any type of pornographic content. They are meant to empower women and men by showing off their clients sexy side not shoot any sexual activity. I would suggest setting up a tripod with your phone or a small camera.
You're generalizing a bit. i know some professional boudoir artists who would do it. it really depends on the individual. Heck, I know a wedding photographer who has done "honeymoon" stills for couples
The point is that they want someone else to be there to video them
Right. So if that’s the point then quite frankly they could get anyone to do it. I’m just saying a boudoir photographer is not a good option for that.
I know. My response was to get a tripod and do it yourself
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They said a fee.
We do it ourselves
We started with some of the couples that we now play with that way. Just parallel play, and we taped eachother. Was hot. Progressed from there....
I've always wanted to do this, always been a video buff. But I have no video catalog to show them, and even if i did I would not want to invade anyone else's privacy. That's the horn of the dilemma--figuring out how professional or how amateur you would be comfortable with. The minute you say 'show me what you've done' you're going to exclude 90 percent of the people who would be into doing it.
I am pretty sure there will be people standing in line to video! I have become more of a voyeur over the years love to video! Even have the ability to shoot night vision! Just make trust and be sure to control the situation they to video only and no keeping the content! There pleasure should be watching you two pleasure each other! I had a buddy of mine film me and wife a few years back! It was a blast!
Have you considered parallel play / same room no swap? Less pressure to be the performer (unless you're specifically looking for exhibitionism)
Definitely interested in same room no swap at some point
I'd film you
We talked with a couple of friends to do it but we actually never got anyone to film us. We just do it ourselves, it's not that hard and since I guess it's not for professional production you should be able to do something appealing to you easily. We do it all the time. It even adds stuff to do and since we're filming we take some time to dress up and get groomed a bit for it. We sometimes use a tripod and most of the time we just use our phones and it turns out ok. We love to edit and watch it later, also share it with whoever might find it interesting.
As a professional Glamour photographer and video producer I have been hired to make videos of swingers parties before. Very intense and a lot of fun
Don't get your brother to do it... j/s
👋🏽 I learn quick
I’ll do it for free
Took pictures for a friend. They turned out very good!
We started by asking one of my friends. She was a bit reluctant at first, but eventually came around. We always spent a lot of time together and even went to nude beaches with her so we didn’t think it would be a big deal to ask. You do have to be careful because some folks will get offended.
Have a look here on Reddit at r/swingersr4r You can describe exactly what you want, and you'll likely get lots of guys who'd do it for free. Be sure to include your location, since r4r is worldwide.