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Wonderin63

Thank god. She’d gorgeous. And I’d much rather hear that they gave them back for some stupid reason, than have them live in a home where they aren’t truly appreciated.


ConversationSad2177

This. Even though it's a silly and uneducated reason, like cats shed, it's so important that we let people know that if they can't meet the needs of their animal that there are people who can look after the animals. A lot of people shame people for giving up an animal but that just leads to abandoning animals in unsafe spaces :(.


loliehoe

Yah I totally get that. I was a little upset that she was returned because she came back to me with big scabs on her neck and missing a lot of hair around her neck. So I’m not sure what happened to her! But I’m happy she is safe with me now 🥰


dumbucket

Sounds like she may have been allergic to something in the house she was in. One of my cats has a few allergies that'll leave her scratching herself raw


gargravarr2112

Seconding allergies. My tux Barley is allergic to certain ingredients in cheaper cat food. It makes his ears itch to the point he'll scratch all the fur off. We found a brand of food that didn't trigger his allergies and have stuck with it for 7 years. It's expensive but he's worth it! He also sheds like crazy despite having a lush short coat. There's cat hair everywhere. Rather than give him up (which I will never do), I got a Roomba. You just deal with it if you're genuinely committed to adopting a cat.


Big-Cream4952

I prefer to call shed hair Kitty Glitter. Just as difficult to get rid of as regular glitter without the shiny look at me vibe


GeneraalSorryPardon

Possibly it was the food, maybe the cat is allergic to one of the ingredients. I thought I was doing my tuxedo a favor recently by feeding him expensive organic food but the fur on his neck and butt started falling out. Now he gets his cheaper food again and the coat looks perfectly healthy again.


OhLordHeBompin

Maybe a flea collar reaction?


loliehoe

I totally thought about that but the scabs looked like dog bites maybe. I’m just so curious as to what happened!


Kandykatexo

You should totally put a flag on them or something so they can’t adopt from your organization.


ConversationSad2177

As someone who was a foster kid, I appreciate that you do fostering 🥰🥰


loliehoe

Aw thank you 🥹. I’ve been considering fostering children when I’m more a grown up (lol I’m 30 but it would still feel like being a teen parent you know 😂)


shfiven

Oh maybe she has a dietary sensitivity, I wonder what she was being fed. When she gets adopted out again make sure they know what you're feeding her since it sounds like it works for her. Or just keep her, maybe it's destiny lol


Vanlibunn

They mess up starting to try to shave her to stop the shedding? Very mysterious.


teamhae

Are you keeping her this time 🤞 she’s so pretty.


loliehoe

Aha no, I am really tempted but I would like to keep fostering so I need to let her go 🥹


teamhae

Aw that’s understandable. Thanks for loving her until she meets her real forever parents.


DragonFly7664

Could have been a reaction to a flea collar. So glad she is safe with you🙏❤️


Kandykatexo

Or maybe they put an uncomfy collar on her.


Mother_Hepzibah

Possibly they applied some cheapo, counterfeit China-made flea & tic preventative? This really takes the story from bad-stupid to full blown abusive for me. Thank you for saving this angel twice!


GArockcrawler

I so appreciate your perspective. I started down the path of thinking about how horrible the adoptive parents were but you're right. Better for sweet Tequila to be in a place where she's understood and loved.


ConversationSad2177

I'm really glad you were able to see a different perspective because of my words. There can definitely be cases where people are awful but there are a lot of cases where the person may not longer have the capacity to care financially, health wise. I think because people with animals see all the love and joy the bring they can get a bit rose tinted when someone says they need to put an animal up for adoption. I've seen what happens when people don't feel like they can look after an animal but feel too shamed to go to an adoption service. It is almost always an awful outcome for the animals. We need to let people know, yes getting an animal is a big decision and you need to be prepared for lifelong care, but also if something happens to you or them we have lovely people like OP, who can help either temporarily or longer term. Sorry for the mini essay, I get really passionate about animals and fostering 🥰


loliehoe

I just resent them a little because they returned her after 2 weeks for the excuse that she was shedding. But she is better back with me and the rescue, that dumped somewhere because she was unwanted. I see your point for sure!


Mother_Hepzibah

I agree, well spoken. We must only shame them quietly and amongst ourselves.


TrailerTrashQueen

i never understand people who adopt a pet, then bring it back like they’re returning a purse. it’s shameful. ‘shedding’? please. what a b.s. excuse. but it all worked out for the best and she’s with her person ❤️


loliehoe

Yes totally agree! Animals aren’t impulsive purchase, they are a commitment.


MonkeyDavid

I’ve adopted cats that turned out to have serious medical conditions and it never occurred to me to take them back. We did foster a cat who had FCV that we had to have a another foster family take because we had two other cats (we had kept him in isolation and because it was mid 2020 we were disinfecting everything anyway). Felt bad enough about that. Returning a cat who sheds? I mean, I’m glad they did because they are terrible and shouldn’t have a cat, but really…


Doyouevenpedal

I love her already. If you live in the Pacific NW of the US, I will gladly adopt her.


loliehoe

Aw no we are Canada girls! Sorry 😩


Practical_Pack3642

Darn, I was thinking the same thing. ☹️US Southwest here.


Craggysteve

Those people didn’t deserve her💕


loliehoe

I 1000% agree. She is the kindest little cat!


Craggysteve

Her face is exactly like my Robbie!


Japanesewillow

Cats shed? Who knew? I can’t believe someone would get a cat and return it because it sheds. I’m happy she’s back with you now.


loliehoe

I know, it was the worst bs excuse 😤. Thank you!


Glindanorth

She looks identical to our Princess Leia who also sheds--spectacularly a lot. My husband happily used that as an excuse to buy a fancy vacuum cleaner. (edited to fix a typo)


loliehoe

Ahahaha I think the way your husband handled it is the only way to handle it! Not to return the cat after 2 weeks 😩. She also came back with big scabs on her neck and she was missing hair all around her neck. So I’m not sure what happened 😔


Glindanorth

In addition to the vacuum cleaner, we also bought a bulk pack of lint rollers at Costco. Poor Tequila. I'm glad she's back safe with you. When my husband saw that picture on my laptop screen he did a double take and said, "Is that Leia on Reddit?"


loliehoe

Ahahahah I’ll tell her she has a twin sister somewhere in the world called Leia!!


Tink1024

Tequila dodged a bullet with those horrible adopters. I love a good foster fail congrats! And their loss Tuxies are the best cats I have a rescue one!


loliehoe

Rescues are the best! I haven’t adopted her, she is just staying with me until the right family comes along 🥰


Tink1024

Ah okay thank you for taking such good care of her, she is so beautiful! Her PURRfect home will happen I believe that!


Kandykatexo

Any chance you are in Minnesota? Lol I want her


loliehoe

Awww no we are Canadian girlies 🥹😂


bmw5986

First, thank u for fostering. Second, well, I can't post what I want to call those people I would get banned. Tequila is gorgeous and I'm glad she's safe now. r/BubblegumNose r/WhiskerFireworks


loliehoe

Yes I agree with you! But now she is safe and happy!


Interesting-Fruit-15

Oh my god, a cat that sheds? What a horrible creature! How dare she! She should be ashamed! I suggest you fix this by changing biology.


loliehoe

Ahahahha that made me chuckle. I will talk to her about biology 😤


Interesting-Fruit-15

Maybe I'm weird, but I like my cats fur. It's soft on her, and when it's off her, it reminds me of her. It's like she's marking me as her territory. I am an extension of her fluffiness


loliehoe

Awwww that’s the cutest way to see it! I love that!


Robotbeckerz

My tuxie was returned to the shelter for being too loud 😂 he’s been mine now for 4+ years and I love our daily conversations


Robotbeckerz

https://preview.redd.it/oax4335ubiyc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=956918a053e5e4f2f99c9978aec7b31e79ba8e42 My handsome dumb dumb


loliehoe

Ommmmmg so adorable 😍😍


Robotbeckerz

https://preview.redd.it/7e74j941eiyc1.jpeg?width=1206&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f1722162cb24e26359c6de5c40f9a7fc29234ce0 He always has to lay on something, no matter how uncomfortable 😂😅


loliehoe

That’s the law according to the rules 🫡


Without-Reward

Is he using a drink holder for a pillow? What an adorable weirdo.


Robotbeckerz

Yes, yes he is 😂


re_Claire

He reminds me of my mums tuxedo, Stan! He’s also such a himbo https://preview.redd.it/2b7mmgizblyc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0c2d2fb6c116f402d12ec113fb5803bda20d499


IndigoInsane

My tuxedo is also loud! She even figured out she is loudest if she yells in the bathtub. So i just live with a tiny cat that goes into the tub to scream at the universe occasionally.


BackgroundProof4860

https://preview.redd.it/20yr8il36iyc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=070eb9a1429fa9acbb4f8e1f9062c6281d7e65fd Buster says thank you so much! At least you tried and you were willing to take Tequila back with open arms! 😻😻


loliehoe

Awww, cute Buster 😍


Reader124-Logan

Put that “adopter” on the NO list.


loliehoe

Yah I hope they were red flagged!


Ok_Detective5412

People who return cats because “they shed” should be blackballed by rescues. What on earth did they expect! 😂


loliehoe

It was such a random excuse!


shfiven

Whoa seriously? I get returning a cat that has aggression or something but.........the cat sheds??? What cat (besides those sphynx cats) would anyone actually expect NOT to shed? I'm so annoyed by this but I'm glad you're here to help out.


PuzzleheadedHospital

That person needs a pet rock. She’s gorgeous!


reebeaster

Cats shed… that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard


Mystical_Cat

A cat that sheds?! 😱


DarkwingDuckHunt

woo woo woo you mean a long hair cat sheds? since fucking when?


JoanofBarkks

SO glad she was returned versus getting rehomed to a possibly bad owner. Hopefully the next adoption sticks.


aestheticathletic

Tequila is just NOT having that BS. And neither am I!


MaggieMakesThings

I think maybe Tequila has decided where she wants to be! I fostered my boy and he came back twice - I signed his adoption papers on new years day and he's been my best buddy ever since ❤️ https://preview.redd.it/komh6yfvhmyc1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=426516a78e5479209f69d75f6508ea7673f97fcf


loliehoe

Omg congratulations! That’s such a beautiful story 🥹


MaggieMakesThings

Thank you so much, I feel very privileged he's decided to stay here 😀


Retinoid634

Poor baby. I’m glad she’s back with you.


lilplasticdinosaur

My motto is, cat hair, don’t care. 😸


mkelley22

Tequila looks like she's had enough and needs some margs lol


loliehoe

Ahaha best comment 😂


smd372

Look at those whiskers!


loliehoe

I know right?? Such majestic whiskers!


smd372

r/whiskerfireworks might like her there, but her whiskers are so whispy


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Wonderful_Letter7470

Pretty Tuxedo girl😻♥️


Hot-Lifeguard-3176

Imagine that, a cat shedding! People really use any excuse other than ‘I don’t want a pet’. One of my girls sheds a lot. That’s what vacuums and lint rollers are for. 😂😂


loliehoe

Yah honestly I think it was just a bullshit excuse to return her. She doesn’t shed that much at all.


Dogzillas_Mom

She sheds. Can you blacklist those people? They shouldn’t have pets.


loliehoe

I don’t think they will be able to adopt again with the rescue!


Unhappy_Skirt5222

I WOULD THINK NOT🤨


missgnomer2772

“Ugh, she sheds. I can’t deal.” “… She’s a cat.”


Ok_Alarm_1979

She's ADORABLE!! F them!


swoon4kyun

Do they not know how cats work? I’ve found hair on my doe foot applicator, removed it then still applied my lip gloss 🤷🏻‍♀️ their loss. She’s a gorgeous kitty.


broken_lazarus

My boys shed like hell. Does it annoy me? Yes. Do I love them? Yes. So I'm keeping them. Best decision of my life.


Pinkkittiears

Adopt her she is a gorgeous baby


loliehoe

I want to keep fostering so I can’t adopt 🥹


Pinkkittiears

You can’t adopt and foster at the same time where you are? I assume this is different on a per organization basis.


loliehoe

Oh no I totally can! But I would need to adopt a cat who is supe friendly and easy going with other cats and it’s hard to assess if the cat is!


Pinkkittiears

This makes sense. This is valid.


satinsateensaltine

Shedding is a plus for me. I love brushing out animals. I don't know why but it really soothes me.


Beehive350

I’m just glad they cared enough to bring her back home to you instead of throwing her away. Tequila is a beauty.


IzzyandRebelsmom

She is absolutely beautiful. I would gladly vacuum/sweep her fur, so glad you were able to take her back, and give her the loving home she deserves!


ImportantError

She sheds … omg what dense morons that don’t understand fur animals - that most do shed (especially spring & autumn) They would have had fits with my two Norwegian Forest cats (sadly passed) who are semi-longhair so shed a hell of a lot more than the average shorthair cat! I used to have a t-shirt with the logo on it: Cat Hair, Don’t care!


SumoCat86

I have 2 Maine Coon cats and they could win gold medals for volume shedding if only the Olympics (both Winter and Summer games) would only add an event for Cat Hair Shedding. The events would coincide nicely with cats’ hair shedding cycles.😺


eveisout

My two cats were adopted as young kittens by someone else, returned to the shelter because their adopter's work situation changed and he couldn't look after them anymore. Apparently they were smelly and came back covered in fleas. They were 6 months old. We adopted them from a foster when they were 8 months old, best decision of my life! Two little voids. Hopefully Tequila finds her forever home soon


eveisout

https://preview.redd.it/qh6c5j12liyc1.jpeg?width=1808&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=090e2fb93f267df7c123f6bd497dc613ae89dc81


BarRegular2684

She’s so beautiful!


legacy3233

After reading comments I'm even more glad she's back and safe with you. Will you try to adopt her out again, or will she be a foster fail?


loliehoe

Ahaha no, no foster fail for me. She is my foster #20, she will be waiting for her forever family with me tho!


legacy3233

I hope she finds an amazing home. I shall give my tux some good chin scritches in her honor!


loliehoe

Thank you 🥹🥰


Noregz

OMG, a cat that sheds. The horror. /s Show me a cat with fur that absolutely never sheds. Edited to fix a word.


Positive_Hippo_

Tequila is Archie's twin! https://preview.redd.it/uli29labyiyc1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=65775713623b50ddd78b05895e791f652f4473c9


loliehoe

Omg she is!! Archie is adorable!


funkcatbrown

Wow a furry creature sheds! Not acceptable. /s


jedi_master99

Gorgeous girl! Thank you for taking her in a second time! 🖤🤍


Glibasme

What a beautiful tuxie. She looks sassy and full of personality. Their loss. Has those great white whiskers, too. Looks a bit like the kitty I live with.


1gothickitten

She is a real beauty and can shed her beautiful fur on me any time!


murderhornet1965

I'm glad she's back safe with you. Beautiful Cat.


cvalkoe2013

Our boy tux was returned to the shelter due to "being to clingy and talking too much" I'm blessed to have adopted him! He is absolutely amazing! It makes me sad to hear when people return companions for such pointless reasons 😔 *


cvalkoe2013

https://preview.redd.it/yzgf6l89pgzc1.jpeg?width=9000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3ee8f31ce66eac253375f8cd24eaad92ee15148c


vanlearrose82

Look at that sweet baby. She’s lucky to be back with you!


loliehoe

Thank you! I feel relieved she is back ☺️


vanlearrose82

Protect the tuxies ❤️


BlackSunshine73

Gorgeous girl!


Kandykatexo

I want her.


Helpful_Funny_2127

Very photogenic, posing for the picture


CptDawg

She sheds?? Seriously? Idiots


ZealousidealIron9360

Thank you 🙏🏻


ZealousidealIron9360

😺😻😽😺😻😽😺😻😽😺😻😽


ZealousidealIron9360

💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋


Substantial-Gap2005

Maybe she just shed with them because she wanted to be back with you! Are you a foster fail now?


loliehoe

Ahahahaha maybe! But no I’m not a foster fail, we are waiting for her forever family to show up ☺️