Nice work. Good luck with modding! And with mods- try to get 4-5 that covers a few timezones. Modding will make or break this sub. You will also need very clear & defined rules.

Totally agree! I really wanna join and I hope they can find good mods

invite sent

I hope there is diversity in the mod team that reflects OPs intention for it to be open to all kinds of women, instead of it being run by a clique of friends.

I'm not sure if just commenting here is enough but I would love to be added to this please

Me too

me three pleeeeease! :)

Me too please

Me three! Four? We definitely need a sub just for women that is moderated

I would also like to join! Thanks!

Yes! Me as well! Sounds like a wonderful community!

got it

i will get to everyone as I can, I promise!

You the GOAT for this, OP! I know this ended up being a bigger response than you were expecting, but it shows how much we truly need the space! I’d also like an invite, but no rush 🥰

honestly, i'm getting crushed right now, but i am getting to everyone one at a time. you've got an invite

Just remember to take some time outs to take care of you!! The requests will still be there, even after you take some time to breathe and relax ❤️

oh my goodness just yesterday another woman made a post looking for something just like this. i would love an invite if you could i have looked for such a long time for something like that. regardless if i get the invite or not so much kudos to you for doing this it probably is not easy but it is a really awesome thing for you to do!

you're in, and that post is what made me decide to advertise our little sub (not so little now, with everyone joining!)

I would love an invite!! Mostly a lurker, but damn if I don't get sick of men in here...

I would also love an invite <3 Thank you for this, so much.

Sent.

When you have a chance, I'd love an invite.

I’d love to join too! Turned off DMs years ago because those are never safe from men so I can’t send a message unless i turn them back on

Me too. I've never had my DMs on because I just can't bear to even see what people might send.

I posted a cute AND TASTEFUL work outfit once in the big boob problems sub. Little did I realize that sub is moderated by a man, and that thousands of men lurk it. I just wanted to help my fellow large chested ladies feel like they don’t always have to look like a fucking potato sack to be “aPpRoPriAtE” for the work place. I then posted to blast all the creeps I could and turned DMs off. It’s still in my post history. Tens of thousands of post activity from bots and lurkers. Disgusting.

Sent.

Thank you!

Same! I turned off my DM due to harassment and unwanted pics!

People really DM on Reddit about topics? Do people really believe someone's mind will actually get changed from an Internet stranger telling them how dumb they are?

People DM to ask to see my body.

Sent.

I sent a request but I'll comment too! If I have to read "as a man" one more time in here....

Hahaha

I wouldn't mind an invite, I'd be interested to see how you vet something like this

post history is the best way, and then keeping a close watch on the sub. anyways, you're in

I would love to be included 😊

Same

Honestly, this seems like a good idea! I just hope that people with bad intentions don't manage to gain access 🥲

i sent you an invite, and i agree. i'm doing my best to vet everyone's post history. and i will also need people to report anything they see that is bad, so i can look at it.

what in someone’s post history will disqualify them? I’m active in multiple forums (seen by comments and posts i’ve made) but my account is very sexual. does having a very sexual account automatically disbar you from being allowed in? I’d love to be but need to ask

sexually active is not a problem. i look for indications that anyone requesting to join is a woman (or non-binary in a case by case basis). i look to make sure they are not racist, homophobic, transphobic, or otherwise bigoted. i see nothing at all that would disqualify you, and you should have an invite incoming.

I’d love an invite! PS if you look at my comment history, please note that the “stupid bitch” comment is an inside joke within the fandom & subreddit of the show “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.” I was not actually calling anyone that.

Wouldn’t that be funny if that comment “ruined everything?”

LOL YES it would.

This song is playing on a loop in my brain more than I’d care to admit! I may need antidepressants… I’ve heard they’re so not a big deal

They’re SO not a big deal! (And omg, ME TOO.). You should join r/crazyexgirlfriend if you’re a fan! It’s hilarious when someone comes in and just posts, thinking it’s a subreddit for talking about crazy exes

That sounds like a really positive space, I hope everyone enjoys it!

Yes please! Would be nice to be able to post about women's issues without some rude misogynist making it all about them .

As a nonbinary AFAB person, would I be welcome?

yes, very welcome!

May I join?

Shouldn’t it be r/safespaceforwomen?

May I join please? I love this sub generally. Just hate when it’s the early parts of a post with men brigading :(

Sent an access request, take your time to verify folks and don't feel pressured to rush through the unexpected attention.

i honestly should've expected this resaponse, but i was....naive. anyways, you're in, and i am going through all requests one at a time

Hey, sorry to bother but would I be able to join? :o P.S. I have no post/comment history because I just joined Reddit..I am a trans woman and thought that Reddit might be a good place to research/talk. :)

Definitely would like an invite please. The racism here has been unchecked at times and because of that, this has not been a safe space for WoC. Hopefully you will also be on top of trolling/clickbait and ageism as well.

i won't lie, i'm lily white, and i will not pretend to speak for anyone of color. but i will do my best, especially if others point something out to me. and once the dust settles, i'll be looking for more mods, and women of color are at the top of my list for that.

A sub where we can talk about our experiences without a bunch of men telling us, not all men? Please, count me in!

I'd appreciate a lot an invite, thank you.

Request to be added, please!

Please add me too!

I'd love to join! Do I have to have DM's turned on for an invite or can you just use my username? Thanks!

Add me please 😊

*yells from the back* HI! SIGN ME TF UP PLEEEEEASE

I’d like to join please!

Yes, thank you! Please send me an invite. r/WitchesVPatriarchy has a way to close off a discussion to members only (especially when bigots start brigading a post) but it would also be nice just to have our own place.

Please send me an invite too!

I don't know if at this point you're still adding people to the private sub, but I would love an invite as well.

I know you're snowed under with invite requests but I'd love to join too!

I would like to join! No rush, if you see this great.

If you're still accepting members, I'd like an invite! I don't have many comments on my profile, but would like to be part of a safe community where I could post more.

Would love an invitation, please!

I will join!

I would also like an invite whenever you have time. Thanks for putting this together for us.

Thank you for all the work put into this. I'd love an invite.

Also mostly a lurker but I’d love an invite.

Can I please get an invite when you have some time? Thanks!

I would like an invite!

I’m interested. Thank you. But I disabled DMs bc of creeps, so maybe I can just request to join the group and you could approve? Or I could enable DMs for now. Edited to say I’ve enabled my DMs if someone would please send me an invite. Thank you.

Whenever one of you has time, I would love to join! Thank you for doing this!

I don't have a lot of post history but I would love an invite!

You've been here for 8 years and I couldn't find any huge red flags in a quick profile dive. Invite sent.

I would love to be added as well whenever you are able to. Thank you all so much for doing this! <3

Can I be added to please. Thank you for your work to make a safe place.

Me please!

How can I be added?

Male feminist here to say, best of luck! Dad, and grandfather part also says thanks! Unfortunately, there is a need.

Just wanted to say how awesome this is! Obviously as a man I can't engage with it but it's still great to see. Props OP!

I'd like to be added!

Me please! My post history should be easy to parse imo lolz

Would love an invite if/when you get the time 🥹

I would also like to join!

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I would like to join if possible

Hi - can I have an invite please 😊

I'd like to get an invite! Thanks :) Ps. I understand that individually adding thousands of people can be a hassle. Please take your time!

I'd love an invite whenever it's possible 🙋‍♀️

I also would love to join 🥺🫶🏻

Add me please. I would love to join in without unempathetic guys giving me "logical" solutions

Love this. Could I please be added as well?

I’d love an invite as well when you have time. Thanks for creating this space! 🩷

i would love an invite 💞 thank you for creating this

Me

I would love to join! When you get around to it! ❤️

I’d like to join thanks!

I guess we just comment for an invite? I would like to participate, please! 😬

Meeeee too!!! 🙌🙏😊😁

I'd love an invite as well at your convenience! I saw another comment you mentioned about post history. If mine isn't sufficient I'd be happy to give you some other proof. Thank you so much for taking the initiative!

Can I be invited please? Would love to actually have a space just for women

I've invited you!

Thank you so much! I’ve joined!

Absolutely no rush but I’d love to be added as well. This would be a dream for a safe space here.

I mostly just lurk, but would be glad to join!

got you

Hope it goes well! I don't qualify for membership but wish you success in your endeavor.

I would like to join please!

Can I join please?

Sound’s lovely. Sign me up!🫶🏻

I would love to join!

I tried to join but it wouldn’t let me?

I would like to join!

Me please!

Can I join?

I’d like to join please 😊

I'd love to join!

I would love to join !

Can I please be added? Much appreciated!

Can I join?

I’d like to join.

I would like to join!

Sorry to bother, could I join as well? 

I'd like to join!

I'd like to join

I would love to join as well please.

Requesting to join please! Thank you!

Id like to join

Can I join?

Would love to join, thanks so much!

I’d like an invite!

I’d love to check it out too!

I'd like an invite too. Thanks! <3

I'd love to join

I’d love to join

I would like an invite, please 🌻

Sounds awesome! Can I request an invite?

Me please.

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I would love to join when you have time! No rush though

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Can I please get an invite? ☺️

Me please

i would really love to join!

Great idea- I’d love to join please!

I’d like to join please

Definitely interested. Can I get an invite, please. Thank you!

Interested!

I’d love to join, please!

I'd like to be invited please!

I'd love an invite. <3

Me too please!

I’d love to join!

Love this! I'd also like an invite!

Please vet me.

I am dying for such a space!

Would be interested in joining

I’d love an invite 🖤 This is a really great idea!

I'd love an invite

May I join please?

May I join as well, please?

Me too please !

May I join?

I'd like an invite!

Hello I would love to join, and will be patient :) Thank you!!!!!

I'd love to be on the list to join

I would love to join

Oh I would love to join 🖤

I'd like to join also!

I would love to join this sub, especially seeing how much Reddit changed in the last few years

Me too please!

I would like to join!

Invite sent, sorry for the delay!

Please could I join too? ♡

Invite sent, thanks for your patience!

I'd love to join!

Invite sent, sorry for the delay!

Me please 😊❤️

Invite sent, thanks for your patience!

I am interested please. :) I mostly lurk.

Invite sent, sorry for the delay!

May i join please?

Invite sent, thanks for waiting!

i’d love an invite pls!

I'd like to join please.

I would like an invite, please 😊

I'd like to join, please

I'd like to join too please ! I will be so nice not to risk reading sexist comments

I would love to join!

Yes please. When you have time.

I'd like to join!