Inform atleast two friends. U don’t have to tell bumble date and all if you’re not okay with it. Send them your live location. Keep it on for highest time(8 hours) or something. Even if you’re planning to stay only for few hours.
I second this. If you have these kinds of doubts, it's best not to go to his place. You should meet out a few more times and establish that trust before you go to his place, otherwise you'll keep stressing about safety.
First meetings, or even second or third meetings, should ideally be held at a neutral location to avoid things like the stuff you’re paranoid about. Until you feel like you can really trust this person and you’ve gotten to know them really well, going to his place probably isn’t the best idea. That’s not to say every guy who invites you over to their place is out to get you but it’s just something to be mindful of.
Why are you going to his place alone, when you are not 2000% sure about him ?
But if you have decided, please let atleast few of your friends know where you are and ask them to call you every 30mins and someone who can pick you up if needed.
Suggest you not to go to this place right now. Establish a sense of trust with him first, even if it takes months. If he’s a good person, he will wait.
Can you wait it out? Maybe build more trust, have some commitment between the two of you before you do that. You want your first time to be good and comfortable and something you won't regret.
Only a couple of times? Why is he inviting you home already unless it’s a house party where you guys can hang out and avoid ending up in a bedroom because of the crowd. Anyways, stick to public locations into you’re really sure
Inform atleast two friends. U don’t have to tell bumble date and all if you’re not okay with it. Send them your live location. Keep it on for highest time(8 hours) or something. Even if you’re planning to stay only for few hours.
Also send one message every 1 hour, some secret code and delete it , it takes 2 sec. So when they won't get it. They'll check on you.
Don't go to his place until you've established trust. However long that takes.
I second this. If you have these kinds of doubts, it's best not to go to his place. You should meet out a few more times and establish that trust before you go to his place, otherwise you'll keep stressing about safety.
First meetings, or even second or third meetings, should ideally be held at a neutral location to avoid things like the stuff you’re paranoid about. Until you feel like you can really trust this person and you’ve gotten to know them really well, going to his place probably isn’t the best idea. That’s not to say every guy who invites you over to their place is out to get you but it’s just something to be mindful of.
Dont feel pressurised at any point. You always have the option to back out.
Why are you going to his place alone, when you are not 2000% sure about him ? But if you have decided, please let atleast few of your friends know where you are and ask them to call you every 30mins and someone who can pick you up if needed.
Suggest you not to go to this place right now. Establish a sense of trust with him first, even if it takes months. If he’s a good person, he will wait.
maybe I sound paranoid but don't go to his place, hangout with him first in person multiple times.. that too in kind of safe public place
Can you wait it out? Maybe build more trust, have some commitment between the two of you before you do that. You want your first time to be good and comfortable and something you won't regret.
Only a couple of times? Why is he inviting you home already unless it’s a house party where you guys can hang out and avoid ending up in a bedroom because of the crowd. Anyways, stick to public locations into you’re really sure
Girl NO just NO . Do not go to his place or any hotel until u have met in public a couple of times already . Just NO