Some boyfriend that is. Just casually chilling out while his gf is getting beaten by her husband.
P.S., maybe if you didn't beat your wife, she wouldn't cheat on you
I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and say that she's smart enough not to marry someone she knows will beat on her.
Most abusive relationships start like any other. There is no foolproof way to determine if a partner will be abusive in the future.
Chances are, she didn't do anything wrong.
No. It’s beyond stupid to ignore the red flags. I had a dear friend that wouldn’t listen to me or her family. She married a guy who was abusing her even before the engagement, she only knew him for a few months. We begged her not to. WE loved her.
She left him once and stayed with me for a few nights then went back to him. He killed her. I won’t say “unalived” because that’s not harsh enough. I miss her! And I’m angry that she’s gone. WTF didn’t she open her eyes??? Why marry him in the first place? She left me alone. We had plans for our futures. We’ve known each other since kindergarten.
I will say this as often as I need to. It’s the woman’s choice to be with a guy like that. I had to learn in therapy that I couldn’t do anything about it. Please know the red flags. I don’t care how rich or handsome he is. As soon as you start feeling uncomfortable LEAVE. Please don’t bring children into that mess.
Most abuse happens before the serious relationship starts, my friend’s did. Even if everything is great up to the wedding it could change. Please, please remember your life matters. Especially to your family and friends. They love you more than some guy you just met. You are contributing something unique to the world that’s positive, always remember that. Say it over and over: “My life matters and my positive energy is needed in this world.”
I will hurt for the rest of my life because she chose to be with him. He took my lifelong friend from me. She is beautiful and talented and so very kind. She loves animals and will have to be a shining light now.
If I can help even one person make the right decision and save herself I will thank my friend for that
I am angry because that didn’t have to happen. My friend made the wrong decision. We need to have personal responsibility and defend ourselves. We can’t make stupid decisions then expect to be pitied for it. It’s just dumb to move in with someone who treats you terribly. Even after we all told her what can happen. Yes, that’s stupid. It will keep happening unless we talk about it and find out why women still walk into it.
There were two people in that relationship. Leave or die. We can’t tiptoe around it. We can’t soften the words.
The thing is: There are usually signs a guy may not be a good fit for a relationship. The real thing to say: That guy hit you and if you value your life don’t go back.
Do we jump into the ocean with sharks all around? Do we jump out of an airplane without a parachute? Do we stay in a house that’s on fire? No. Humans usually make decisions that keep us safe. If we know that guy is the dangerous we should respect the red flags and make better decisions.
Of course men shouldn’t be hurting women but until nature or chemists or the medical profession comes up with a way to stop them, we need to protect ourselves. We should be able to say, “stop” and the person stops. Until that actually happens are we supposed to allow it or do whatever we can to preserve our life?
I’m saying we need to teach our young girls they are loved and respected and they shouldn’t allow anyone to harm them. Should this be talked about in school? It seems many parents aren’t talking to their kids about this kind of relationship. It does start in the home when children are young. Boys shouldn’t hit girls and girls shouldn’t allow it.
I don’t have the answers but we need to get this message across. Maybe I am victim blaming. I just don’t understand why my friend went back to him. She had a choice and she chose him. Yes, I am angry with her. I’d like to have a few minutes with him, alone. Am I supposed to still support her and be happy with her decision? Is any family or friend happy when their loved one is going through this? No. They’re scared, can’t sleep, waiting for a call from the police, always thinking about that person. When that person is buried, they’re thinking, what could they have done, why didn’t they do more, it’s their fault.
No, it isn’t the family member’s fault. They tried to stop it. We all did. I still don’t understand why she went back. It was her decision.
1. "Men are no responsible for beating their love ones, is how nature works"
2. "Girls need to learn since kids that men are going to beat them, but boys don´t have to be teach not to do it"
3. "If she stayed with him she saw it comming, the man had couldnt help himself"
4 what is wrong with you?
There are women who also abused their husbands, this si a social behavior that needs to be corrected. The men beat his wife because he couldnt control her anymore so he needed to show is in charge again, beating her is not going to change anything, this is show of force, not nature.
I guess I didn’t write that clearly. Women and men abuse each other. It’s not just men abusing. We need to teach all kids about respecting everyone. But we also need to teach when a relationship goes wrong. We need to talk about it and make sure everyone knows they should never be hit and if that happens to get out. Self preservation.
I’m angry because I want my friend back. My life is going on and she should be here.
I failed her.
How do we explain this to kids? To adults? It happens. It’s illegal. It’s terrifying to anyone in this situation. Families are torn apart and friends live with the guilt.
What could I have done? Maybe that’s what I’m here for. What could I have done differently? Anything? I need help. I’m a mess. I feel like I should have locked her in a room. But she made the choice to go back. She didn’t even know him long. I knew her almost her whole life. Why? Why? Why?
You know how it is...
"Hey Dave, my missus is screwing around on me."
"Oh shit, Steve. Do you want me to come film you beat the shit out of her?"
"Yes, please. I'll pick you up in 10."
She no doubt wrong but he is a weak piece of shit! Be a real person/ man and leave; get a divorcee or counseling. But the fact you physically beat her or anyone, you need some fucking help! Let me take bat to your ass!!
Canada is the woman getting beaten?
Canada is the a-hole with the stick?
Canada is the guy holding the camera?
Canada is the car with the broken window?
I mean, if you're going to make totally asinine comments, ate least explain what you're talking about. Ain't no mind readers here
Pretty clear why he was filming..
Like in 99,9% of the clips here. I leave. Bye!!
I'm not sure but I kind of see why she was cheating.
Some boyfriend that is. Just casually chilling out while his gf is getting beaten by her husband. P.S., maybe if you didn't beat your wife, she wouldn't cheat on you
Maybe she shouldn’t have married him.
I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and say that she's smart enough not to marry someone she knows will beat on her. Most abusive relationships start like any other. There is no foolproof way to determine if a partner will be abusive in the future. Chances are, she didn't do anything wrong.
It's India- she probably didn't have a choice in marrying him.
Very true
Oof shitty take
No. It’s beyond stupid to ignore the red flags. I had a dear friend that wouldn’t listen to me or her family. She married a guy who was abusing her even before the engagement, she only knew him for a few months. We begged her not to. WE loved her. She left him once and stayed with me for a few nights then went back to him. He killed her. I won’t say “unalived” because that’s not harsh enough. I miss her! And I’m angry that she’s gone. WTF didn’t she open her eyes??? Why marry him in the first place? She left me alone. We had plans for our futures. We’ve known each other since kindergarten. I will say this as often as I need to. It’s the woman’s choice to be with a guy like that. I had to learn in therapy that I couldn’t do anything about it. Please know the red flags. I don’t care how rich or handsome he is. As soon as you start feeling uncomfortable LEAVE. Please don’t bring children into that mess. Most abuse happens before the serious relationship starts, my friend’s did. Even if everything is great up to the wedding it could change. Please, please remember your life matters. Especially to your family and friends. They love you more than some guy you just met. You are contributing something unique to the world that’s positive, always remember that. Say it over and over: “My life matters and my positive energy is needed in this world.” I will hurt for the rest of my life because she chose to be with him. He took my lifelong friend from me. She is beautiful and talented and so very kind. She loves animals and will have to be a shining light now. If I can help even one person make the right decision and save herself I will thank my friend for that
uh? what does that mean? It almost sounded like you are blaming the victim of violence here.
I am angry because that didn’t have to happen. My friend made the wrong decision. We need to have personal responsibility and defend ourselves. We can’t make stupid decisions then expect to be pitied for it. It’s just dumb to move in with someone who treats you terribly. Even after we all told her what can happen. Yes, that’s stupid. It will keep happening unless we talk about it and find out why women still walk into it. There were two people in that relationship. Leave or die. We can’t tiptoe around it. We can’t soften the words. The thing is: There are usually signs a guy may not be a good fit for a relationship. The real thing to say: That guy hit you and if you value your life don’t go back. Do we jump into the ocean with sharks all around? Do we jump out of an airplane without a parachute? Do we stay in a house that’s on fire? No. Humans usually make decisions that keep us safe. If we know that guy is the dangerous we should respect the red flags and make better decisions.
Did you realize that you here are talking about teaching women how this is their fault instead of teaching the bastards not to beat the women?
Of course men shouldn’t be hurting women but until nature or chemists or the medical profession comes up with a way to stop them, we need to protect ourselves. We should be able to say, “stop” and the person stops. Until that actually happens are we supposed to allow it or do whatever we can to preserve our life? I’m saying we need to teach our young girls they are loved and respected and they shouldn’t allow anyone to harm them. Should this be talked about in school? It seems many parents aren’t talking to their kids about this kind of relationship. It does start in the home when children are young. Boys shouldn’t hit girls and girls shouldn’t allow it. I don’t have the answers but we need to get this message across. Maybe I am victim blaming. I just don’t understand why my friend went back to him. She had a choice and she chose him. Yes, I am angry with her. I’d like to have a few minutes with him, alone. Am I supposed to still support her and be happy with her decision? Is any family or friend happy when their loved one is going through this? No. They’re scared, can’t sleep, waiting for a call from the police, always thinking about that person. When that person is buried, they’re thinking, what could they have done, why didn’t they do more, it’s their fault. No, it isn’t the family member’s fault. They tried to stop it. We all did. I still don’t understand why she went back. It was her decision.
1. "Men are no responsible for beating their love ones, is how nature works" 2. "Girls need to learn since kids that men are going to beat them, but boys don´t have to be teach not to do it" 3. "If she stayed with him she saw it comming, the man had couldnt help himself" 4 what is wrong with you? There are women who also abused their husbands, this si a social behavior that needs to be corrected. The men beat his wife because he couldnt control her anymore so he needed to show is in charge again, beating her is not going to change anything, this is show of force, not nature.
I guess I didn’t write that clearly. Women and men abuse each other. It’s not just men abusing. We need to teach all kids about respecting everyone. But we also need to teach when a relationship goes wrong. We need to talk about it and make sure everyone knows they should never be hit and if that happens to get out. Self preservation. I’m angry because I want my friend back. My life is going on and she should be here. I failed her. How do we explain this to kids? To adults? It happens. It’s illegal. It’s terrifying to anyone in this situation. Families are torn apart and friends live with the guilt. What could I have done? Maybe that’s what I’m here for. What could I have done differently? Anything? I need help. I’m a mess. I feel like I should have locked her in a room. But she made the choice to go back. She didn’t even know him long. I knew her almost her whole life. Why? Why? Why?
Heartless, cold-blooded, unethical behavior
Bloody Behenchod...
How can he hit
They question is why are they filming instead of stopping this lunatic?
The cameraman is hubby's friend, that's why they were filming.
His friend is gathering evidence against him?
You know how it is... "Hey Dave, my missus is screwing around on me." "Oh shit, Steve. Do you want me to come film you beat the shit out of her?" "Yes, please. I'll pick you up in 10."
🤣🤣
That’s a real homie
Video locks-up on me 11 seconds in. Tried to refresh. Turned WiFi on off and on. Why does this happen on Reddit sometimes? Insanely frustrating.
Why were they filming? I hink it's pretty obvious lmao
*Male assaults female. There, fixed your title.
Are we sure this isn’t some woman trying to escape a dangerous situation and the guy in the passenger seat is trying to help her?
2 punk ass dudes!
Hand of 🔥
Dude just standing there while his girl gets kneecapped. Smfh
She no doubt wrong but he is a weak piece of shit! Be a real person/ man and leave; get a divorcee or counseling. But the fact you physically beat her or anyone, you need some fucking help! Let me take bat to your ass!!
This is what's happening to Canada
Canada is the woman getting beaten? Canada is the a-hole with the stick? Canada is the guy holding the camera? Canada is the car with the broken window? I mean, if you're going to make totally asinine comments, ate least explain what you're talking about. Ain't no mind readers here
Explain