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DarthRathikus

Best way to ensure that happens is to have everyone stop dancing. Seriously, you ever see a dance floor just *stop* and boo a DJ? I have. It’s as glorious as you’re picturing.


KermitMadMan

We used to joke that the dj would play a bad song or two so people would get off the dance floor to buy drinks at the bar


waterboy1523

Thats not a joke. Thats a strategy. Source: former bar owner.


EroMangaSensei

Lol, I'm glad this is the strategy cause I do this way too often. If it's good I'm absolutely dancing, if it sucks I just stand there and sip my beer. I feel like this is a problem at most bars. I'm tired of "Get Low" and "Party in the USA" unless this is a throwback party.


Magnus919

The dancing was at Ruby Deluxe.


theonlyjh

Some friends and I are going there next weekend! We walked by on the way to the Wicked Witch and it looked fun.


Affectionate-Drag177

I think it was Goth night last weekend at WW, which is usually very fun and very danceable if you like EBM/Industrial 💞


mandated_coffee_time

Not it wasn’t :) (from my xp) Legends is more accepting in my circle


Suspicious_Bug6422

I *need* a club that will play brat 😭


vans_culottes

all my little heart wanted was the girl, so confusing version with lorde😭


Unlikely_Ad1120

pleaseeeeee a brat themed night is most neccessary


shhhh040324

If you find a club playing Cowboy Carter and Brat make a PSA 🗣️ my husband loves music and told me I'd love Brat and he played a couple songs today... The album deserves its praise so much. Hope you find a good place to dance!!


PneumoniaLisa

GAG! DJs play Bey and Charli. Not a club but a party in the Triangle. They’ve done events at Legends, The Ritz, The Fruit, Junction West, Yacht Club, and more. gag_raleigh on IG, “GAG Raleigh” on FB


followacctonly

i’ve literally been begging for this since the am um dropped, if anyone can find one lmk.


Prestigious_Grab_148

LuxePosh played Brat all throughout her set, it’s all over the Legends Instagram story.


stryyyker

The Glitz inside Legends had a brat play through Saturday night around 1am! It was LIT 🔥


kiwi-tron

I'm following 🥹


cmd194

You mean you don't wanna hear "Get Low" by 'Lil John? 


ANAL_TWEEZERS

Can we, as a society, please move past 00’s club bangers/crunk. Going out feels like fucking Groundhog Day. Get drunk, listen to 00’s crunk, repeat for years ad naseum. Like please play literally anything else. Slap a 4x4 behind some Beethoven, idgaf I’ll get down to it cause it’s not the SAME GODDAMN SONG I HEAR EVERYTIME IM AT A BAR


raleigh_tshirts

People who stop listening to new music when they turn 22 is an epidemic. edit that sentence makes no sense but you get it


Duckettes

Woah are you not gonna include THE inventor of gay pop themselves??!! Miss Jojo Siwa??!!!


EffectiveProducicle

It’s a new genre! 😂


Sunny906

😂


Nineteen-ninety-3

*Mariah_Carey_Idontknowher.gif*


thatbiguy3000

You know how there’s K-Pop?


PneumoniaLisa

I would get lit for “Karma” before so much of the shit that I hear at the club.


TheModestProposal

Completely agree, every time my little gay self goes to legends I leave after an hour because the musics not hitting (also some techno-ish songs and remix’s go on for like 15 minutes). Ruby deluxe put on an awesome Burlesque show but when we came back at night they didn’t have a DJ which surprised me on their busiest night of the year, there was room to dance but if the song didn’t hit it was just standing for 10 minutes waiting for it to change (with an awkward pause between songs lol). I’ve determined maybe that’s just how gay bars are here and I’m just getting old lol


martybumm

I swear that the music has been the same at Legends for at least the last decade!! GAG Raleigh is up and coming and I went last night bc they were hosting something at Legends but the music in the main dance area was killing me.


ssuing8825

I would do anything to hear the rave music we had between 1997 and 2004


definitelyian

I still have my Best of 97 CD I got from DJ Joey at Legends that year.


tzage

same and Im only 27 lol


01927482

Honestly, we were all saying the same thing about the DJ at GAG last night. Like I’m so sorry, but can we not move on from playing the entire Born This Way album? (Which was released in 2011 y’all) We were expecting more Troye Sivan, Chappell Roan, Brat, even new Dua Lipa with some oldies mixed in. The queens were great, but like if you want it to be a dance party, play a song with a fucking beat.


PneumoniaLisa

Definitely heard Brat at Gag!


koithefatfish

yeah the dj at legends fucking sucks the only reason I don’t go that often 😭 please we need a new one


ncnrmedic

They’ve kept the same one for over a decade. Probably because as ridiculous as the management is, nobody else wants the gig.


mandated_coffee_time

Is it legit always the same one? / person?


ncnrmedic

AFAIK it’s still Joey.


tjrog084

We are begging for a new DJ


Technical-Avocado-92

Well, the one thing we can say is Joey isn’t posting racist, Zionist memes from the Babylon Bee on his personal Insta story. Really curious how Gag comes out strongly pro-Palestine today but has him playing their event.


PneumoniaLisa

What’s the t here?


Technical-Avocado-92

Keep an eye on the story of the DJ from Saturday who follows the Babylon Bee. He reposts many racist, anti-Palestinian things to his story.


PneumoniaLisa

Been following him for years. Never seen this type of content. Last time I remember that subject matter being brought up by him he was actually calling out somebody else’s racist BS. I guess feel free to screenshot & DM me if you see what you’re referring to pop up again, that would definitely be concerning to me.


dontKair

Club Era in Durham says hello. Y'all should stop by there sometime


theths152

YES! It kinda sucks that Raleigh doesn't have too many good clubs but The Fruit has got to be one of the best gay clubs in the south. Haven't been to Club Era yet but excited to check it out


thepoopyfart

Wait the fruit is a gay club?! Just thought it was a club! The fruit is so much fun! You guys and gals rock, would love to party more with ya


beamin1

This is how it starts!! 🤣🤣🤣 Careful or you'll stop goin ta cherch and start hanging out with the cool kids!


theths152

I'm not quite sure what makes something a gay club but they have gender neutral bathrooms, host several lgbt events, have several signs up about supporting the lgbt community... etc etc lol so I'd say it is


PneumoniaLisa

It’s not, but it’s always been queer-friendly/hosted queer events on occasion. However, just a few weeks ago, the basement of The Fruit became Club Era, and is now a dedicated queer space.


Jessicaa_Rabbit

I’ve always viewed the nightlife scene as, Raleigh: college kids and 20 something preppy’s. Durham: hipsters and gays.


DirtyDbull4vr

Owner of Club ERA here. The Fruit is not a Gay Club, however, Club ERA which opened June 1 of this year is in the basement of the Fruit building and is a Gay, Queer, Trans nightclub and bar. We are open 7 days a week. Please feel free to visit our website at www.cluberadurham.com This weekend (Saturday) is our BIG GAY ASS DANCE PARTY for the last Saturday of Pride month. Our rotating DJ’s are all queer people of color, and we will be featuring DJ Wicked and DJ Lex On Loud. Please visit their IG pages. And as we do every weekend at Club ERA, we will be buckin with the beats, twerkin and stompin like we always do in the Bull City. Join in this NEW ERA FOLKS!


Prestigious_Grab_148

The Fruit and Club Era really impressed me on Friday night, reminded me of NYC


DirtyDbull4vr

Owner of Club ERA here. The Fruit is not a Gay Club, however, Club ERA which opened June 1 of this year is in the basement of the Fruit building and is a Gay, Queer, Trans nightclub and bar. We are open 7 days a week. Please feel free to visit our website at www.cluberadurham.com This weekend (Saturday) is our BIG GAY ASS DANCE PARTY for the last Saturday of Pride month. Our rotating DJ’s are all queer people of color, and we will be featuring DJ Wicked and DJ Lex On Loud. Please visit their IG pages. And as we do every weekend at Club ERA, we will be buckin with the beats, twerkin and stompin like we always do in the Bull City. Join in this NEW ERA FOLKS!


PneumoniaLisa

Seconding this!!


InsecticidePerfume

i love how this is the most common complaint i hear about legends, if not the only


the_black_panther_

That's been a constant issue for Legends lol when 30 came out one DJ there played a horrendous Easy On Me remix that no one could've asked for


ppoverheat_

I went to legends and flex Friday night and avoided the dance floor because of this😂 put my gay ass in the patio, tuned out the music, and just hung out.


martybumm

Literalyyyyyy. We went to Legends to dance and instead just gabbed on the patio.


athoughtfulbee

The music was so bad 😭 I was like maybe they’ll switch out the DJ?


yrulikethis

Green Monkey has been playing brat! Was there on Saturday & they even played some songs from Tove Lo‘s new album


Hot-Produce7127

Green Monkey needs to stay open past 9:00, esp during Pride.


Rough_Reaction_6936

\*sigh\*... that playlist attracts a demographic that should remain at Legends. I hear rumors Zenith became a defacto gay club with better music. I have not indulged. I notice spaces for gay men are not my vibe despite the eye candy.


Practical-Basil-3494

Try being a lesbian here. It's brutal (despite Ruby and the Wicked Witch). There are SO MANY straight women there that it's ridiculous. Y'all deal with your men and stay away from our spaces. I would be happy to never see another bachelorette party.


AdonisBreeze

All the lesbians are in Durham


dontKair

It's true. Arcana, Pinhook, and Velvet Hippo, among other places


Rough_Reaction_6936

I love singing "Sour Times" and "Home" at the Pinhook... I need to wander out to Arcana and Velvet Hippo and ERA.


ncnrmedic

Sister I promise you that most men at Legends don’t want the bachelorette parties either.


Becca_inc

Oh wow, who knew there were more of us here. I just figured you guys were figments of my imagination


Rough_Reaction_6936

That explains the lack of vibe I get with the women at Ruby Deluxe and The Night Rider... I'm just fumbling through as a pan trans femme enby. I'm still figuring out how the sapphic side of things progress.


Practical-Basil-3494

🤩


jhgonzal7

More like defacto no! The “allies” there need some serious training to stick up to the community from homophobic patrons.


Rough_Reaction_6936

A gentle reminder they're homomisic, not homophobic. They hate homosexuals (misic), not fear them (phobic). They do fear blunt force to redirect their behaviors. And that would make many other patrons of Zenith "Good Germans."


tllkaps

The Sabrina Carpenter erasure...


theganjaoctopus

Joey hasn't been a good DJ in 10-15 years.


tjrog084

She needs to retire


Far-2Tall

I’m glad someone said it. I’m here to support it.


hessiansarecoming

As an old(ish) queer chick who last went clubbing during Dubya’s second term, I am excited to look up the music you are talking about and dance to it in the privacy of my home. (Of course I don’t mean Beyoncé — even I know who she is. Love her.) Or maybe it’s time to get out there and dance!


vans_culottes

eeeEe✨ specifically the girl, so confusing remix with lord and Kevin Aviance’s Cunty


veronica0204

On the legends website there is a contact form. I’m sure people could respectfully give feedback there for the venue to see people would like to hear different types of music https://legends-club.com/contact-us/


b_lett

I think NC in general doesn't know what it wants to be musically, and struggles with the electronic/dance scene a bit. As a producer in NC, I'd love to see NC actually embrace more electronic and bass music. I don't care if it's trance, techno, EDM trap, dubstep, hyperpop, drum and bass, UKG, chiptune, etc. Theres so much variety out there to pull from. I'm straight, but I recognize exciting music movements when they happen because I keep my ear open to all genres and scenes. SOPHIE. Charli XCX. AG Cook. Kim Petras. Easyfun. Romy. Moore Kismet. Porter Robinson.


TSnow6065

I thought we were going to be talking about Burns and Horne.


samyulls

The DJ at legends is STRAIGHT thats why


TenaciousPimple

I understand the frustration but hard disagree. I'm straight and almost 50 and man it would be so fun to play any of the three you listed. A lot of folks stick with what works. In music everything changes though.


FrameSquare

You can disagree all you want his reputation is known for playing garbage music. Why they still keep him around? No fucking clue.


TenaciousPimple

Simply meant orientation wasn’t the issue. Wasn’t disagreeing to what they were putting out.


Riceowls29

Not Cowboy Carter 😂


qoohl

He’s also rude af 👎


naykedsoul

🤣🤣


Most-Introduction-14

I wish I knew how to dj 🥲 I know what SONGS to play and your list is exactly where I'd start haha


Mother_Forker

“Can you play a song with a fucking beat?”


raleighguy222

Do clubs play Madonna anymore? Holiday always gets me on the dancefloor, but I am pretty basic and delulu for Madonna -does that make me cheugy? I saw her live in December and she was awesome!


PneumoniaLisa

I do not hear Madonna played nearly enough for how iconic she is and how well her music still holds up on the dance floor! But yeah def hear M now & then around town. Check out @b_color_full_productions on IG, they play her at their parties!


raleighguy222

I am glad to hear you appreciate her! Her 90s music - from Erotica and Ray of Light - was way ahead of its time and you are right, still holds up! Thanks for the suggestion!


thisiswhereiwent

They should have brought DJ Wicked over there!!


JanitorOPplznerf

I’ll get right on this.


maceygrey123

i wanted to go to the brat party on saturday but the line was SO LONG. it wrapped around the entire parking garage nearby!! I ended up just bailing. I’ll have my own brat party haha


PneumoniaLisa

Wait where was the brat party?! How did I miss this?


broshugbros

A KEVIN AVIANCE MENTION?!?! THE LORDT LIVES!!!! Now I'm feeeeeeeling like a Lily!


PneumoniaLisa

Amen! Also, love your username.


illsim

I tried to dj there but per usual I don’t get a shot


KingAoki

Legends has been known for horrible music. I don’t think they’ve changed their, “DJ” in 20~ years.


5ftGoliath

I love how many posts there have been lately talking about how wack the music is at legends. someone please show them.


Dizzy-Fly1279

Did they play that horrible mash up between Clarity (Zedd) and Party Rock Album


Practical-Spinach-99

Paying all that money to get in to hear trash music. Someone should bring a speaker and party outside of Legends. I will say at the Beyonce event his playlist was LITTY.. That’s the only time he played consistently good music. Id pay to go to another event like that over a pride event with trash music ANYDAY!!!!


Distinct-Original849

Go to Club Era in Durham! It’s in the basement of The Fruit. Much better music and vibes than Legends and Gag. They just opened June 1st. Saturday nights are crazy there, especially after 11.


samsclubFTavamax

Is there any way to host your own night? Show them people want those songs too.


DJMagicHandz

*"Alexa, play Padlock (Larry Levan Mix) by Gwen Guthrie."*


pepperstringlights

personally i dont need to hear chapel roanne but i agree about charli


joanstir4t

YES this


Alone-Dealer-4460

It’s not a gay club anymore at all….


PneumoniaLisa

You’re saying “DJs” but it’s literally the same DJ on the dance floor every single Friday & Saturday night. I have been complaining about it for yeeeeaaarrrs. I think sometimes he even plays the exact same set from weekend to weekend.


KPashlove

And kim petris of course!!!!


Uplifting_Quote666

Too bad Ruby is owned by a queer baiting manipulative clown. 🤡


Karlaanne

Oh, baby queers. I’m sorry you didn’t hear the new stuff or whatever but as an elderqueer i need you to understand that Joey gave us so much music we desperately needed in the 90s and early 2000s, not only that he was the one that gave us the first and only drag shows back in the day. AND he gave us weird-queers the first and only goth night in the county. So talk all the shit you want, but yall need to put some respect on your early generation community. And downvote me all you want but i love this guy and he gave so many of us so much in the beginning. Go to ruby if you just gotta have the babyqueer TikTok tunes. I love yall but i love us that survived the pain and drama that we only found peace from the classic diva house Joey gave us back then.


CaptBurgundy

That was 20-30 years ago and while I’m sure it was meaningful at the time, people aren’t beholden to honoring the past in place of current culture. Being so dismissive calling it TikTok music reinforces that you don’t care about the current generation as you idolize your own. 


Karlaanne

Trust me i love my baby gays…. I’ve worked at hiv prevention nonprofits tirelessly (& so many of us as well! Lmk if you need info on volunteer opportunities!!) because we grew up in the time where yall didn’t lose friends and family to AIDS, like we did - we grew up in a time where legends (& Joey) was the only sanctuary for us. When i hear the younglings diss the tragedy we endured by just throwing out complaints like “diva house sucks” it breaks my heart. I hope you guys know most of the queens you support and love are my age (40+) and most of the queens we lost 20-30 years ago we lost because we didn’t have prep or even azt… please don’t disrespect your elders, we fought our asses off to thunderpuss and Armand van helden so you can be free to thrive! And I’m so gaddam glad you can; it’s why we fought as hard as we did. Please watch the documentary “How to Survive a Plague” - please!!!! I love you, babe. You are all my children. OUR children. I truly hope you aren’t hurt by what i said, i just have such dedication to legends/joey for a reason. So many of us do. I’m sorry you didn’t get to experience the party you expected- but i just hope you all know this part of the night was for us. Joey is for us. We fought like hell for it. 🫶


veryhungrybiker

I was going to Legends back in the 90s and early 2000s, and even then we'd laugh at how boring the music was there. It's like whoever was DJing, even then, had no idea about the great stuff being played at that time in underground clubs and warehouse parties. Or, worse, knew about it and chose not to play any of it. You'd hear something good every once in a while, but mostly it was embarrassingly ordinary music that anyone who'd ever been to a good party could tell was tired. (Edit: sorry, that last part came out too snippy; it wasn't aimed at you, Karlaanne. We'd just hear so much better music at clubs and parties in other towns; Legends had a rep for bad music even back then.)


invah

They don't care. Their experience is that queer spaces have always existed, the infrastructure has always been there from their perspective. Legends has multiple long-term employees including certain drag queens and Dick behind the bar. Like Coti Collins (rest in peace) was doing the same Reba performances and songs for decades. And we gave her respect no matter what. The fact that Legends has existed for decades is really very extraordinary for a night club. I am with you, I can't jump on this DJ Joey hate-train, especially since the djs at Wicked Witch (jumping to the goth/gay side of things) with one exception are *terrible*. I go to The Fruit and Zenith now. But I respect that Legends respects their people.


PneumoniaLisa

I love this, and I’m upvoting you, but unfortunately if I don’t like the set I don’t like the set. And for the record I love classic diva house.


jhgonzal7

What a condensing comment to the younger generation all wrapped up in cute words. Brava


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subsandwichis

You can start DJing if you want!