First things first, there absolutely could be other health factors that play into this that I have no business advising on. Just ask yourself if your stress about this happening or performance anxiety has any effect on whether you start feeling gross or nauseous each time.
Talk to your partner and with yourself to set very clear expectations beforehand that you could stop it whenever you like and be assured it will be ok. Like an exit/finish strategy. It may help with the parts of sex that you DO get to enjoy.
First things first, there absolutely could be other health factors that play into this that I have no business advising on. Just ask yourself if your stress about this happening or performance anxiety has any effect on whether you start feeling gross or nauseous each time. Talk to your partner and with yourself to set very clear expectations beforehand that you could stop it whenever you like and be assured it will be ok. Like an exit/finish strategy. It may help with the parts of sex that you DO get to enjoy.
thank you so much!