I can totally relate. I get a lot of dumb 20 something year olds boys who are like "wanna fuck?" Or "wanna hookup?" No substance or personality to them. They're instant turn offs. I have to really get to know a man to know if I want to eventually have sex with them or not and if they are poor one-on-one conversationalists, I would rather not waste my time on them.
And some of the men around my age are more mentally damaged than I am. It's rather quite frightening how shallow and horny the 20 yo young boys are and how the older men don't know how to properly talk with women. The dating apps pool gets more shallow and less interesting the older us women get I think.
Agreed. I’m glad I am not alone on this subject. Although I feel I’m doomed to spend my time with just men who want sex and if I am lucky enough a few hours of terrible conversation.
I can totally relate. I get a lot of dumb 20 something year olds boys who are like "wanna fuck?" Or "wanna hookup?" No substance or personality to them. They're instant turn offs. I have to really get to know a man to know if I want to eventually have sex with them or not and if they are poor one-on-one conversationalists, I would rather not waste my time on them. And some of the men around my age are more mentally damaged than I am. It's rather quite frightening how shallow and horny the 20 yo young boys are and how the older men don't know how to properly talk with women. The dating apps pool gets more shallow and less interesting the older us women get I think.
Agreed. I’m glad I am not alone on this subject. Although I feel I’m doomed to spend my time with just men who want sex and if I am lucky enough a few hours of terrible conversation.
You're more patient than I am, I would so want to skip out on them if they're a horrible conversationalist.
I think “dating” sites don’t truly exist and it’s more about the random hookup than actually establishing a relationship/connection.